yes hes 21 but he is also a virgin and doesnt smoke or drink, and is a very hard worker. he is my moms neighbors friend. i think he may be lonely or might not have many friends.
2006-08-08 12:31:10 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is a virgin and no i didnt ask him, my mom does know how old he is her and her neighbor r the ones telling me about him. i have met him and no he isnt ugly he is cute asnd i dont know him enough to like him. no he doesnt smoke or drink becus his best friend and one of his only friends and my neighbor told me so. hes shy, hes scared to death to come talk to me! so dont go telling me hes a sexual predator ...hes harmless. hes like a little kid, he doesnt know how to come tell me he likes me!
2006-08-08 12:55:52 · update #1
noooooooooooooooooooo
2006-08-08 12:34:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not ok. A 21 year old man has enough experiance in life to be very deceiving to a young girl. He will be able to paint you a picture of how great he is when that may not be the actual truth.
If you were a little younger we could call this man a pedophile. That is an adult who wants to have sex with children. That is illegal. Already we have a 21 year old who most likely wants to have a physical relationship with you. You are a minor. That would be considered rape. He would go to jail for that as well if your parents pressed charges.
Has he expressed any desire to keep the relationship secret from your parents? That should be a big red flag for you if that happens.
The red flag that I already see is the fact that you and him are discussing sex. You should not know that he is a virgin; it is not a proper topic to come up for friends. It is not necessary for an older man to share something like that with somebody your age. Do you want to know why he does not have many friends? It is probably because he has a history of doing things like this. You may not know it, and he will not tell you, but he could be a registered sex offended.
This is not a game you are playing. This is dangerous. Please, stay away from him before you get hurt. When you are 21, you will understand how weird this was for him to be doing these things to you. What seems ok now will not seem ok with age and wisdom. Talk to your parents. They will respect your honesty. And they will protect you so that this bad guy does not hurt you.
Remember, this guy is not the nice guy he portrays himself to be. He is a predator. He is out to harm you. All he wants is your body for sex, and once he is done with you he will move on to another girl. Stuff like this happens all the time sadly. Please do not be the next victim!!
2006-08-08 12:42:45 · answer #2 · answered by La Voce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty, i could question why he must be with someone a lot youthful. As an adult you dont ought to handle mothers and fathers or something and that is a delightful loose feeling. if one evening you favor to in straightforward words stay and cuddle you're able to all evening while not having to mislead mothers and fathers or maybe with. also, if he did favor to in straightforward words bypass have a delightful drink someplace there's a probability you wouldnt be in a position to come back. a large type of the time once you hit the 20's, a minimum of in my circumstances, you dont favor to be with someone lower than 18 merely because of criminal age and what no longer. i could definetly consider it. look on the bigger image as well. for my section 16 3 hundred and sixty 5 days olds and 21 3 hundred and sixty 5 days olds are in thoroughly distinct places of their lives, 16 3 hundred and sixty 5 days olds are making in by ability of intense college at the same time as 21 3 hundred and sixty 5 days olds are making their lives. maximum of my acquaintances are engaged with the help of that element. finally it is your desition for sure, yet when i have been to be contained in the position as your in i'd not do it. Sorry...
2016-11-23 16:40:22 · answer #3 · answered by viney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a virgin still doesn't change the fact that he's too old for you. he's probably in his last year in college and you're still in highschool. you never said you liked him you just said you THINK he's lonely. if you're tryna go with him just to prove you can get a 21 yr old, don't. your parents shouldn't let you date a 21 yr old anyway cause most of time relationships like that don't last and once you all break up it will cause emotional distress and you're too young for that. in like 5 or 6 years when you both are out of college, it may work but until then stick with someone your own age.
2006-08-08 12:42:51 · answer #4 · answered by jdukenumber1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd advise against it, too big a gap at your age.
If you feel sorry for him, maybe you could set him up with someone his age. Or if you and some friends are going somewhere, invite him to join in.
But on a one to one date, not yet.
Just one added note, you say you "think" he may not, have any friends. I'd find out if that was true first, and why that is so. He may not be that lonely.
2006-08-08 12:36:58 · answer #5 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't encourage it, but it happens. Watch out for the loaners and if something doesn't feel right -- it usually isn't.
P.S. Only half believe a man who says he's a virgin at 21.
2006-08-08 12:36:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is "date"?
Probably every 21 year old guy would love to "nail" a cute 16yr old.
But age is NOT just a number.
And PLEASE DONT listen to these Teenie boppers "wisdom" telling you 'age is just a number'. They Have NOT the life experience to teach you anything but how to get into trouble.
They don't even know who they are yet.
2006-08-08 12:36:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
princess dont rush into anything even though age may not be a big factor, you are very yung, wait until you have at least finished high school, then think about your friend, remember its better to be knowledgable in relationships than a virgin in love.
2006-08-08 12:35:41 · answer #8 · answered by pay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some are saying don't go for it because of the legal age and whatever, some are saying go for it. I'm saying go for it but just don't have sex with him so he doesn't get in trouble and to deal with your parents let them get to know him better so they'll be less against you going out with a 21 year old guy. If you like him and he likes you try it out if it makes you happy and he respects your limits and you.
2006-08-08 12:41:58 · answer #9 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not date just be friends with for now. u have to completely trust that guy and now all about him b4 u guys start dating. my last bf is 21 and that didnt turn out too good. my new bf is 22 and i'm happy so just take ur time baby girl. i'm 15.
2006-08-08 12:38:23 · answer #10 · answered by ~~SUGAR*LIPS~~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if his 21 he is a drinker or smoker and hes not a virgin at the age of 21 he must be ugly and it not ok. grow up and be a lady first then found u a man.
2006-08-08 12:38:26 · answer #11 · answered by trice2crazy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋