I really don't know why I think men are so evil and awful. I have met some good men, but I always assume that because I am ugly and fat that I will never ever have a boyfriend. I am also terrified of being a lesbian. My family would disown me in a heartbeat! I personally think there is nothing wrong with it, but my family's views are more important than my own happiness. I always think that whenever a guy says something to me that there's a mean message behind it, and I know it can't be true. I'm the only girl in my grade that's never had a boyfriend and I think it's because I'm fat. Guys have said some horrible things about my looks and it really hurts me because I think they're true myself. I really want to know if I'm a lesbian inside and how to cover that up, or if I'm just an awkward teen who goes to school with some @sshole boys. Is there hope for me?
2006-08-08 12:28:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of let me tell you that youre beautiful...people are cruel and will tell you thngs that will hurt but you know what, just walk away because their opinion shouldnt matter, if you learn to love yourself you will see that these people only do it because they need to remind themselves that they look good because they are insecure and the only way to get their mind off of their insecurity is to pick on others ...now youre still young if you dont have a boyfriend its fine someone will come or someone already has an interest in you but you wont let them get close cus of your insecurity of being big..get over it and be confident raise your head up..let everyone know that whats important is who you are and not what or who they want you to be..now as for the lesbian part, its not easy if youre gay like you said family will protest and say and do hurtful things but youre hapiness comes first..they live their life , now live yours..you cant make everyone happy so if youre going to mkae someone happy it should be you if youre family really loves you they will accept you no matter what..and if they dont then they are not worth your love...even if its your parents...because as their daughter they should listne to what you have to say not what others tell them to say or even think...just be you girl..youi can do it..
2006-08-08 12:41:49 · answer #1 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always hope. Kids (both boys and girls) can be awfully mean and, if you're looking for it a little bit, you can even see it as mean when they don't mean it that way. You don't say your age and that's OK. What maybe might work is to relax a little bit. If you ARE lesbian, it'll work out. You've got plenty of time to deal with that. If you aren't you won't have to worry about it. If you have a school counselor or trusted adult you can talk with about your feelings it might help a TON. Can you write a journal or diary or write to a person you trust. What to do? Work on grades. Good grades will always help. Be a friend to those who will befriend you.
2006-08-08 19:55:01 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fortunately you will grow out of that awkward phase and they always say ugly girls grow up to be beautiful women. I used to go to school with mean boys and I wasn't the greatest looking teenager either. But later down the road after school was long over I ran into some of those boys and they are kicking themselves now because I won't give them the time of day. One guy even told me so. But now I can't get guys to leave me alone. Trust me you will get there.
2006-08-08 19:35:28 · answer #3 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so hard on yourself
Give yourself the chance to grow up some more
2006-08-08 19:32:32 · answer #4 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u gay?
2006-08-08 19:33:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋