like mentioned before, i don't want to sound conceited with my being but i am a pretty good looking asian girl and i have like 5 guys who have confessed and told me at different settings that they liked me and i tell them im flattered and all that jazz and because i have a good personality i remaine friends and **** but all together i am smart about it and dont want to lead them on--i just wna to know: how would you deal with trying to be nice but telling them off that you dont' liek them back without huriting their feeligns you know? |||||||||| sometimes i ask, gosh why meeeeee? i'm not allowed to have a BoyFriend till' i'm 21! I'm 20 right now... so just 1 more year (= ANYWAYZE!! tell them to back off for me.. tell me what i shoudl do! plz thanxx in advans
2006-08-08 12:35:07 · 20 answers · asked by santa maria de lopez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you got it why not flaunt it. When the time comes, just use a little common sense cause how you handle it now could mean how you can handle things later. Isn't it a shame that there is only one of you for all others to share?
2006-08-08 12:41:31 · answer #1 · answered by Don S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a 5-some
2006-08-08 19:37:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Use the truth, tell all of them that you cannot date until you are 21, problem solved...at least for a year! That's plenty of time to think about which one you may like. During this time, and the years to come, find yourself and what makes you who you are! Good luck!
2006-08-08 19:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't want a boyfriend then just tell them thats not what your looking for at this time. by the way. if your over 18 nobody owns you and you can date who you want. unless your a spoiled brat who is still living with your parents and depends on daddy's money. grow up some, get a life, date around don't settle for anyone. men have been players for years. if you want to do the same then i'd say go ahead and do it. your young and don't have any reason to settle with one guy.
2006-08-08 19:41:19 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woow you must be a boy magnet :P if i were in your shoes, which i'm not or not that i know of i would say to them "i wish i felt the same way but i just don't right now". it'll work like a charm, trust me. it gets the message across and it's sugar coated. hehe =D. damn i'm good at dealing with these things. then again why i'm i still single at age 16 then? lol eh it doesn't matter. i don't want a bf now. enjoying the single life.
2006-08-08 19:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by sugar n' spice 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are doing the right thing. Be polite but firm and make it clear that you are not interested in anything but friendship. Otherwise enjoy the attention. It doesn't last forever you know.
2006-08-08 19:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont wanna realtionship with these guys be an adult and tell them or tell the one you might want a relationship with. if thier feelings get hurt im sure they will get over it. you are not the only girl in the world you know.
2006-08-08 19:39:07 · answer #7 · answered by rogdogg187 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are as smart as you think you are, I don't see what the problem is. Kindly tell them that you appreciate the compliments but no thanks at this stage in your life.
You think maybe that you are just using this forum to brag a little.
2006-08-08 19:45:53 · answer #8 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick the one with the best career potential! But I doubt they like you enough to wait for a whole year! No guy is that good.
2006-08-08 19:39:04 · answer #9 · answered by Jenintn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
honesty works best if you are friends with them all just tell them your not interested. Know matter how hard you try someone will be upset you can't please everyone so please yourself first. and if that doesn't work tell them your not allowed to date until you're 21
2006-08-08 19:39:48 · answer #10 · answered by kyla b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋