and he never finds out. My friend is a beautiful girl, her husband treats her well, she has a beautiful home. The men she cheats with are always well to do, and educated. I ask her why she cheats and she just says she dosen't know why she just loves men. I really don't think its for money because she has her ownand is well to do herself. Why would a woman who has it all cheat so much. My friend is well rounded so being crazy is not an issue. I just wonder how she does this, why?
2006-08-08 12:31:58 · 35 answers · asked by nene 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe she is crazy cheating is wrong no matter in what relationship, if she isn't happy tell her to get out now and tell her husband she isn't happy. It will hurt, but finding out you are being cheated on will hurt ALOT more.
2006-08-08 12:35:30 · answer #1 · answered by chiefs fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's my view from a psychological point. I could be off the mark because of the fact that I don't know how she was raised. It's almost like the young girls on here (10-12 yr olds) looking for LOVE. They have probably been cheated of it. Maybe she is well-rounded and all but maybe she feels lost somehow. Maybe her father wasn't around --- she's trying SOMEHOW to find a way to make men love her and she probably feels that sex will do it. She's starving for love for some reason. She's confusing the sex with love though. Just probably doesn't even realize it.
2006-08-08 12:36:42 · answer #2 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, i think that cheating is wrong no matter what the circumstances are. Im totally against it! Okay, now...maybe there are things about her that you dont know...maybe she feels empty, maybe something is missing from HER marriage, maybe its just her...maybe she has no morals on the subject. Ya know, money doesnt buy happiness...no matter how much you have, it cant by true love, true friendship and true happiness. maybe she has some sort of obsession with men, maybe she kinda gets a rush from cheating on her husband, ya know, from doing it, and not getting caught. sometimes that is the case. but, it will all catch up with her one day..you just cant continue to mess someone over and never get caught...it will come back to her believe me. so maybe theres just some things that you dont know about your friend, sometimes you really think you know someone, and then weird things like this happen, and you dont have any clue on why it is happening. so just let her go on, and he will find out...so maybe you should warn her...im sure she knows tho. its just common sense...so good luck dear...well not to the on cheating...
2006-08-08 21:19:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who does the exact same thing...she seems like she has it all, but still goes out and cheats on her wonderful husband. I think it's a severe lack of self-esteem. I think she's trying to fill a 'void' within herself because she simply isn't happy with herself or her life. It's very sad and incredibly selfish of her.
I hope your friend eventually gets caught...that's the only way they learn (if they ever learn, that is).
2006-08-08 12:37:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must not really love her husband or he would be enough for her. Treating someone well, isn't the same as being loved or cared about. There must be something missing in her relationship. Maybe she is going through mid life crisis or maybe she is just wild and doesn't care about anyone but herself.
2006-08-08 12:36:18 · answer #5 · answered by funnyface53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad. Maybe her husband does know, or at least has an idea of what is going on.
How and why? Because she can, and she doesn't realize any consequences, or she is willing to risk her relationship for whatever reason.
I would stay out of it, and just be there for her if anything were to happen. She is your friend, after all.
2006-08-08 12:37:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has it all but she's probably bored and wants constant excitement in her life. I feel for the husband who doesn't know a thing about it. Why is she even married in the first place when she can have as much fun while single? She sounds selfish to me.
2006-08-08 12:38:23 · answer #7 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Maybe she is not as happy as she says she is then because um.....if you truly love someone then you do not cheat on the person and if you cheat and you do not feel guilt after the first time then there is something wrong. That is very sad. I feel sorry for her.
2006-08-08 12:39:00 · answer #8 · answered by lovenstrength83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she feels the need for more attention than she's getting at home. Or maybe her self esteem needs a boost. Or maybe she gets off on the danger of being caught.
2006-08-08 12:36:29 · answer #9 · answered by Tia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either it's just because she NEEDS variety as a general thing, or she has incredible sexual fascinations (there are some women with high drive who just crave multi-observations of or sexual reactions to their charm and lovemaking skills. It's an ego and self-esteem thing.)
2006-08-08 12:47:30 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋