Has any guy out there ever had problems keeping it up/relaxing to enjoy/ coming when making love with serious girlfriend? My boyfriend of one year tries to avoid sex.. he makes jokes about it, but the truth is, he is obviously haveing problems keeping it hard during, and I can tell he is NOT relaxed, even just kissing. Have I made him more nervous by telling him that I need more sex, more romance, and that he is not normal? i didn't say it mean, but I did say it, because I am frustrated and feel like we cannot bond without making love.when we actually do it, it is a nervous time for both of us.so is that why he now basically avoids it? He s very affectionate, loves to cuddle.but now, no kisses, and no hard-ons.and even if he DOES get hard, he does not innitiate sex! I am getting mad... he acts like that is normal.. or is he just hiding his embarrassment? I know he does not like eye-contact in bed either, but the funny thing s, emotionally/mentally it gets better all the time. WTF
2006-08-07
13:22:56
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