2006-08-07 13:24:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hes not trying to get me too or anything he said it was just a suggestion and it was fine with him what i choose to do....
2006-08-07 13:32:30 · update #1
I would not do it, I think it would ruin our relationship also there is nothing that a woman can do for me that my husband can't .
2006-08-07 13:29:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anna Z 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty normal for a man to get turned on by two women getting it on (whether his wife or not), however the swinger thing is a red flag. My husband would get smacked upside the head if he made that suggestion, then he'd be on curb. That's crap!
2006-08-07 21:22:20 · answer #2 · answered by honeybaby729 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do it, you'll probably regret it, especially if it isn't a fantasy of yours. Some couples can, but they both are freaks and very open without a traditional sense of marriage and relationships. Most people just can't deal with the emotional aftershock of swinging. It's usually the woman who winds up hurt. She doesn't want to share her hubby, but does it out of love. Ask your husband if you can screw some other guys, that'll probably throw him for a loop.
Most men have this lesbian fantasy thing. They want to be with 2 chicks. Tell them you want to be with 2 dudes and they usually say no.
IMHO
2006-08-07 20:31:02 · answer #3 · answered by joanie774 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sort of lifestyle is for couples that are comfortable with it. If it's not your bag, don't do it. They are not all freaks, or terrible people.
I'd ask why does he want this. Is there something missing. Sometimes it can be a sign of something thats missing or not working well in the relationship.
We only have a short time do what you want, what makes you feel good, and what you feel comfortable with.
2006-08-07 20:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by choirboy5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Onece its done it can never be taken back. I wish i could live a normal life. I'm a sex addict and put myself in this possition. I sleep with alot of women, some married some single some really like me others really like sex with me, it really doesnt matter in the end, they go home and I feel so lonely. Theres no settling down, my mind is warped and twisted. My punishment for this life is a feeling of need and deep dispare. Keep your life simple and sane. Sex can lead you to the gates of hell. I feel the fire burning at my soul, scorching my flesh. You really don't want to walk with me.
2006-08-07 20:40:30 · answer #5 · answered by timslim1963 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a divorce, and then find a decent, loving man to marry, that truly cares for you! The husband you have now sure doesn't!!
2006-08-07 20:31:44 · answer #6 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, it's not all that's it's cracked up to be. Wish I could help you out. I'm still stuck in the lifestyle and am still trying to find a way out.
2006-08-07 20:36:04 · answer #7 · answered by babe_in_the_country 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are against this, stand your ground and let him know when you say no, that is exactly what you mean. If he doesn't listen to you and pursues this, he's not the person that you thought he was and you do not have to settle for him.
2006-08-07 20:29:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are both comfortable with the idea then i say go for it, but it's important that the two of you feel the same way, otherwise there will be resentments
2006-08-07 20:32:59 · answer #9 · answered by raffi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way, your marriage is a union between you two, not anybody else.
2006-08-07 20:53:56 · answer #10 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋