I've been trying everything going over my friends house trying to meet new people but thats not working. what can i do
2006-08-07 13:27:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to reprogram the way you think. Its not easy, but you can do it. When you start thinking of your former girlfriend, you have to stop immediately and start thinking about something you like to do, or something that makes you laugh, whatever! Prepare yourself, have something in mind as a back up thought. This is true discipline, but with this discipline there is nothing you want be able to hurdle. You also need to do things that are physical, like join a gym, run, hike, or play some kinda of sport. The more you do physically, the less energy and time you have to reminisce. Moving forward in your life after a breakup is never pleasant and always painful. But we have to do what we can to survive. Once you conquer the "mind set", you will be half way there. Continue to hang out with your friends. Avoid people and places that cause memories to be stirred up when you were dating her. Just take it day by day and eventually, you will wake up one morning, and you will feel happy again. You will of weathered the storm and life will continue on. Hang in there. Someone more suitable for you is going to come into your life very soon!
2006-08-07 13:50:57 · answer #1 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 03:28:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to get over a girl is just be going out and having fun... meeting new females also helps .... try that and see what happens....
good luck
2006-08-07 13:32:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will take all the time you need to get over her. no matter if you are trying to do things to keep your mind occupied. you are going through the hurt now but it will soon turn to you being mad at her then you will finally move on. and you will find someone better. CAN YOU SAY NEXT???
2006-08-07 13:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cared about her, you're going to hurt for a while -- just a fact of life, man. Take care of yourself, keep busy, and you'll get over her after a little time.
2006-08-07 13:45:31 · answer #5 · answered by Blenderhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get OVER a girl is to get UNDER another one!!
2006-08-07 13:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't just meet new people, meet a better person. Upgrade your model.
2006-08-07 13:32:11 · answer #7 · answered by darkvelvetrain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Befriend your old girlfriend to get closure...or if friendship isn't an option just talk to her from time to time to not make it seem she'll never be in your life....She can be in your life just not intimately.
2006-08-07 13:37:44 · answer #8 · answered by Serena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a knew girl?
2006-08-07 13:35:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new one! LOL
2006-08-07 13:31:47 · answer #10 · answered by wmichael.harvey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋