My relationship w/ my parents has been kinda bad for more than a year. I was 13, made mistakes, they were too harsh, humiliated me and this destroyed our relationship completely. I could never get over. I dont make such mistakes any more, dont join bad crowds. Just the contrary,today I am what my parents wanted me to be. But I still hold a grudge. They tried to make up with me, even forced me to go to family counseling, but nothing worked. I'm respectful, dont fight, just keep distant and avoid talking. When necessary I talk with them politely, like an attendant in a store. They hate, but this is my undeniable right, so I feel. They can't force me to love them, Anyway, they keep saying they are proud of me, cause I'm an honor student and do things like taking part in social services. Sometimes this makes me resentful, sometimes angry. It's like they are making fun of my feelings. Despite our bad relationship my good actions make them happy , like they say u cant hurt us, ure defeated!
2006-08-07
16:59:51
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