2006-08-07 17:00:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would recommend that you call her mother and, as respectfully as possible, inquire as to what she would need to see from you to allow you to date her daughter.
If you come across as responsible, mature, caring and willing to do what it takes, you might just win her over. You need to show her total respect, be careful not to curse around her and show her your best side at all times. If you cannot do this, you have little chance of getting her mothers permission to date her.
Here is another tip: If you call your girlfriend and her mother answers, take some interest in her before asking to speak to her daughter. For example, if you know that she is recovering from a cold or an injury, you might begin with “Hi Mrs.________, this is ________. How is your recovery coming along?”
These tips do not guaranty you that the mother will change her mind but they do improve your chances greatly.
I wish you and your girl all the best!
2006-08-07 17:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by mgctouch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'd like to know why her mother doesn't like you. Is it something you could work out by talking to her mother, making a sincere apology? Analyze the situation and figure out where you may have gone wrong. Give it a little time, and approach her mother in a respectful manner, and if she tells you to get lost, do so, don't argue, keep a respectful manner and she may re-think her attitude.
2006-08-08 00:06:32 · answer #2 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why doesn't her mother not like you? You have to answer that question 1st. If its a fixable problem, then fix it. If you are willing to change bad habits, or the way you dress or etc, maybe mom would like you! I had 2 daughters who brought home some real winners., and 1 helped me change my mind about him. He presented himself as a young gentleman, which impressed me because he was willing to do anything to be with my daughter. So you have to ask yourself why, and be willing to fix it for the girl, if she's worth it, and it sounds like she is.
2006-08-08 00:10:16 · answer #3 · answered by twanda_C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its like that for me. except its my best friend. his dad likes me just fine. but his mother hardly wants me in the same house. she hates me. dont forget about her. that just cant be done.
2006-08-08 00:06:25 · answer #4 · answered by Raven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find anouther girl.
2006-08-08 00:04:53 · answer #5 · answered by steven 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋