him want her more is ok when your married? My husband said this to some girl and i found out he told me it was just a joke,does any guy out there think this is right to do joking or not joking when your married i believe he meant it cause this is the girl from his job that i have suspected something was going on for a while and when i confronted him he said it was a joke and didnt mean it so what do you guys think ?
2006-08-07 16:59:42 · 9 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nicki,
Is not a joke!!! Thats how men get the other girls attention. I actually felt for a guy that I work with cause he used to talk to me like that. And I knew he was married. Don't take it lightly. Be proactive.
Don't let this become your worst night mare.
2006-08-07 17:11:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have been joking but the more likely thing is he was throwing it out there to see if she would bite. If she said "I want you too" what do you think he would have done? If you think he wouldn't have done anything it was just a very stupid joke and tell him so. If you think he would have acted on it then, you've got a bigger problem.
2006-08-08 00:39:50 · answer #2 · answered by Vehlt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Draw the line tell your husband his jokes and behavior towards this woman r inappropriate and will damage your marriage and that he should act towards her in a professional manner only. If he does not than you need to be firm in the fact he is moving on and you do the same.
2006-08-08 00:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by lol_des 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
!!!!!WOW!!!!!.........so !!"NOT"!! the right thing to do if your married. your husband sucks lady. but if he has not cheated at all, but is guilty of being a dum-asss, you can foregive a dum-asss, so then you could give him a chance to be a good husband. i have a Question for you. what is the other woman from work like???? could it be that he wants something from you that he is not getting and see's it in her? are you the kind of wife that you would look forword to comming home to if you were him? think about it. you have the power here. if you treat him well and make him feel wanted by his woman then any man would fly home to be with you.
2006-08-08 00:15:02 · answer #4 · answered by 4stringthndr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's poor taste and inappropriate joke. The girl is either offended by his comment and ready to file a sexual harrasment against your husband or, something fishy is going on.
2006-08-08 00:18:16 · answer #5 · answered by acceb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What part of this "joke" does he think you would find funny? How would he feel if you told another man something like that? You have good cause to be suspicious of him and this woman and with him making comments like that to her, he's up to no good.
2006-08-08 00:13:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
better set up a huge boundary but he is probably fantasizing about making it with her. most people will cheat if theyn think they wont get caught.
2006-08-08 00:55:01 · answer #7 · answered by randy p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is immature and you need to talk to him about it if he loves you he never should talk to anyone like that It is disrespectful to you.
2006-08-08 00:21:21 · answer #8 · answered by cowboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kill him
2006-08-08 00:23:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋