2006-08-07 17:01:09 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are you alone with your bf friend? You should tell him that it makes you uncomfortable and if he continues you'll be forced to tell your bf. He sounds like a jerk.
2006-08-07 17:02:58 · answer #1 · answered by Big Brother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that when you and your boyfriend are together and YOU feel it's time to bring it up. Ask him does he appreciated the type of Woman u are and when he states Yes.
You tell him then (do not mention any names) but let him know that you do not feel comfortable when his friends hit on you, You feel that they are being Disrespectful to him as a Man..
And you would never go that way, but you thought he should be aware that some of his friends hit on you when he is not around. But you in turn handle it. (and Laugh)
And then tell him (that's All I wanted To Know)..and lay a big kiss on him.
Being that he knows what type of woman u are and you would never do that.But if he Does not mind reminding his friends when in your company do not hit on my Baby..
Been there Done That.
If he is by chance a Violent man.Take little,little steps in making him aware, or get out of a relationship when a Man/Woman is Violent or Abusive over something like this OK?
God less
Love
2006-08-07 17:15:23 · answer #2 · answered by maxiie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend that you take his best friend aside and tell him that you are interpreting his actions as hitting on you. Tell him that it is making you uncomfortable and you would prefer if he respect your wishes and would not say or do anything which gives off the appearance of hitting on you. Tell him that you love your boyfriend and you will not consider doing anything to hurt or upset him.
If he continues this behavior, then you should tell your boyfriend. At this point, you can also tell him about your previous conversation with his best friend.
2006-08-07 17:14:40 · answer #3 · answered by mgctouch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-08-07 17:03:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend's best friend, hmmmm..... Heck, yes! Your b/f
needs to know what a jerk his friend is. Ask him "If someone says ....... (whatever he said) .... does it mean he's hitting on
someone?" kind of play dumb. When he asks you who said that,
tell him it was his friend and you don't know if he was just joking,
but it made you feel uncomfortable. He'll take care of it. And if his
friend brings it up, again- tell him that you are going to rat him out to your boyfriend if he continues. He ought to get the point.
Good luck.
2006-08-07 17:08:31 · answer #5 · answered by Linda S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bf's friend is disrespecting you both. He needs a reality adjustment: and I wonder if you should seek help with your bf - unfortunately it's a ticklish situation; and if he doesn't quite believe it; it may turn out against you; you have to make the decision to either handle it yourself with the guy or enlist your bf's help. I hope your bf is wise and can accept what you tell him. Good luck with getting this sorted.
2006-08-07 17:06:38 · answer #6 · answered by Tash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell him, his friend makes you feel weird out. And if he doesn't say something to his friend about this, you'll never hang around with the two of them again. Chances are your bf, friend has a crush on you, and doesn't want your bf to know.
2006-08-07 17:06:59 · answer #7 · answered by crafty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very firmly tell his friend to stop hitting on you. Solve the problem yourself. It's too bad your boyfriend doesn't realize how sleezy his friend is. but if you say something,it might cause a big problem that might result in him getting rid of you instead of the sleezy friend.
2006-08-07 17:11:54 · answer #8 · answered by Nosy news 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling, he is just teasing with you. Trying to get something for the boys to talk about. Tell him that he's not man enough for you. If you tell your boyfriend it will only cause trouble later. He'll say stuff like..I'm going out with the boys and you will be @ home; alone.
2006-08-07 17:10:59 · answer #9 · answered by taken for a ride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell the guy that is hitting on you that you dont like what he does/says to you. If he doesn't stop then you should communicate with your boyfriend and let him know how uncomfortable you feel, and ask if he can get him to stop.
Good luck!
2006-08-07 17:05:30 · answer #10 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront the best friend. He'll be too chicken to tell your bf, and if he does, it will seem like he's jealous of you and wants to break you two up. Rather than the other way around.
2006-08-07 17:04:14 · answer #11 · answered by AmateurLinguist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋