Everyone has sex. Are you turned off by certain acts? Does it make you think your s/o will be turned on by it and not by you? are you jealous of the hot women? Does it make you feel slutty?
explain.
2006-08-07 17:09:26 · 23 answers · asked by juju 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not against porn, but I am bored by porn. I'm not visual like men. Watching random strangers getting it on does nothing for me.
2006-08-07 17:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-28 00:19:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am against porn. Besides the fact that it is unrealistic, degrading, & disguisting, sex is so much more more than just 'getting it on.' I've had my share of 'let's do it in the back seat' one nite stands and I'm certainly no prude when it comes to my sexuality (places, positions, masturbation~not of that is a problem for me) but porn is something I will not accept in my relationship.
Sex is the most intimate that you could ever be with someone and it is an expression of the love that you share with your partner and I personally believe that if you are watching a porn and jump in the sack with your loved one, it takes the emotion out of the love making and makes it a f**k fest! Now this is perfectly acceptable when you're a teenage boy, but everyone has to grow up and realize that sex is much more than sticking your penis into any available hole!
I don't know about other women, but I'm tired of hearing the same old "I'm a man and that's what we do!" That's not an excuse anymore boys because real men would respect their girlfriends/wives wishes. If it's a visual thing, then what's wrong with looking at your girlfriend/wife when she is naked??
Years ago, women stayed at home, cooking, cleaning, taking care of the kids and we whined that we wanted to be equals to men~to work and help support our families, to vote and make a difference in our country, but with women that continue to participate in porn and splay themselves across thousands of magazines for men to look at, we have done nothing but become sex symbols- not equals- and as long as we keep accepting it because "men are men and that's what they do," we'll never overcome it.
For those couples who enjoy watching it together, kudos to you. I believe that as long as both parties are for it, then it's fine. I'm still against porn and everything it stands for, but I also believe in freedom of expression and choice. However, if you are in a relationship and one or the other does not like it, porn or what have you, then it is not acceptable and either the partner who wants it either agrees to not do it or decide if the relationship is worth it.
Sex is something that should be shared between two people, the way it was intended~ not you, me, the neighbors wife, & the college football team to get together and watch!
And no, women are not jealous of porn stars because there ARE women who have bodies AND brains and don't need to take our clothes off for a living.
2006-08-08 10:03:47 · answer #3 · answered by gemfaith79 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before we explore the topic of pornography, let's explore the differences in male and females sexual fantasies.
Males are visual, they are turned on by pictures to trigger a fantasy. This explains the popularity of “skin “magazines, porn videos and porn on the internet. Women on the other hand are generally aroused by reading about romantic escapades or love stories. This may explain the popularity of Harlequin Romance, especially the newer erotic books. There is some Erotic porn that some women find stimulating. It will feature romance, wooing, courtship, the thrill of the chase. Some women do enjoy hard core men's porn, but most do not become aroused by pictures of naked females involved in vigorous intercourse on the hood of his car. Many women also feel that their body cannot compare to “DEBBIE DOING DALLAS' so they feel inadequate. Other women believe that their partner is not turned on by them, he wants some female with big hair and bigger boobs.
Personally I don't feel threatened by porn. I find high quality soft porn a turn on if I'm in the right mood and with the right person... I'm not into the hardcore because it's just too graphic. I don't like seeing the close ups and the "money shots".
My only issue with porn is that some men don't understand that it's fantasy, just as some women don't understand that there is no man on a white horse coming to save her... In the real world most women aren't so horny that they would consider having crazy unprotected monkey sex with the plumber.
As long as we can all agree that it's fantasy and for fun, then it's all good. If it's going to be in a relationship then it should be something that you can both enjoy. It should always add to the relationship and not take away... Otherwise it's gotta go.
2006-08-07 17:22:25 · answer #4 · answered by lnfinitelylnteresting 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Porn can be a lot of fun to watch, the thing that sucks is, so much of it is so dang trashy. So much of it is catered to men. Think of all the porn you've seen where they called the woman names, or did things that didn't seem right. So much of porn crosses the line. I don't like to watch a movie where I feel like the females in it are being disrespected. Personally I think 70's and 80's porn is the best, the stuff coming out now is rougher, and so much of it is really crude. A grown woman isn't going to want to watch a porn, where the porn star looks like she isn't even 18, which seems to be a big thing in porn "barely legal." When the industry can find a way to make porn more sensual and romantic and less trashy, more women will watch it, at least, that's what I think.
2006-08-07 17:17:55 · answer #5 · answered by Kerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
against porn,cause it's an act of prostitute, not jealous course every woman has it's own beauty. Have u heard about woman needs to wrap, The word Wrap here means make-over. haha a woman can be extremely beautiful see how u take it. I met a slutty guy, but he repent and do good to the angle that i feel he look handsome. All together depends on how u see it.
2006-08-07 17:25:53 · answer #6 · answered by Andrea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally like to watch porn, my friends and I get together and watch it like guys do. I just wish the guys were hotter, and some of the girls are not that pretty either. And it would be better if it showed more of the guys and less of the women. But I guess the directors of the porno's think girls don't watch it as much as guys, just like you. And just so you know most girls are never going to admit to you that they like to watch porn.
2006-08-07 17:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by beachchic705 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to watch porn and even ordered ten or eleven porn tapes for my boyfriend and I to watch. Maybe he didn't like my selection but he wasn't into it as much as me. Plus, when the tape is on in the background, he sort of disregards it and pays attention solely to me.
The best way to get a man's attention is to have him think you are letting him do whatever he wants. He'll soon get bored with it. So, for you ladies who hate or dislike porn, pretend you don't care and let him buy all the tapes he wants to watch, he has to soon get bored with it - no?
2006-08-07 17:33:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not old enough to have it, too bad. Would you like to be a women, and be featured as the centerfold. I think you forget the women get paid for doing this. and they get paid very good. The more ****it is the more they get paid. You obviously feel slutty at seeing them.
2006-08-07 17:18:13 · answer #9 · answered by crafty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They feel as though you're fantasizing about someone else and they're not good enough. Sometimes men spend more time jacking off then going at it with their woman. Also, it's demeaning and it's thought of as a perversion when watched in excess.
2006-08-07 17:15:28 · answer #10 · answered by m_diddy04 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋