Family & Relationships - 7 August 2006

I've been dating my girlfriend for 8 months now, and they've been wonderfull, we've had our up's, we've had our downs, all in all they've been great memory's, now, somethings up with my girlfriend, She went on vacation (I'm 16 guys) It's been 5 day's and i've never been without her for mre than 2 days so it was hard (Not seeing her), so now, i talk to her about my feelings, i tell her i think our relatinoship is crumbling, and tell her why, she says this on the phone exactly "like to deal with stupid thinks that allready been delt with
if its allready been delt with then why deal with it again"
I told her that this is how i feel i want to get though my insecurites as a team, not to argue and she gets defensiive, like she's hiding something. She gets argumentiive, i tell her and she thinks my feelings are stupid. Then i asked her. "Let me ask you if i keep telling you about this problem will you berak up with me?" She says. "Well, it will annoy the hell out of me yes". I love her ALOT!

2006-08-07 19:55:05 · 10 answers · asked by Jordon H 1 in Singles & Dating

your best friend puts her boyfriend in front of you!?

I'm always there for her.
Her boyfriend is not going to be there
always. friends last forever..boyfriends dont..
why is she doing this!

2006-08-07 19:54:24 · 12 answers · asked by nice girl 2 in Friends

am a girl who wants to know

2006-08-07 19:53:29 · 11 answers · asked by pechykeek900 1 in Singles & Dating

just a girl I once really knew, but still love.

2006-08-07 19:52:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-08-07 19:51:44 · 10 answers · asked by #13 2 in Singles & Dating

My spouse and I have been together for 8 months and she contently tells me that I don't listen to her nor respect her because I ignore her, interrupt her while she is talking, walk away from her while she is talking, etc. It has been extremely hard to listen and prevent the other issues that she is having with me. I find myself angry or defensive every time there is a discussion/dispute between her and I. Afterwards, I'm either drained, hurt, confused, or frustrated.

2006-08-07 19:51:34 · 2 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

his motives were not pure at all and I did not return any favors. should I feel bad? he deffinately wanted something in return and didnt get it

2006-08-07 19:51:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter will not sleep in her own room, let me play with her, or even read to her. I love my wife and our daughter, but my wife said that she feels like she has to choose between us. I have been happily married for 3 years, but nothing I do seems to help the situation. I can't interact with my daughter, she only wants her mother. If I try to play with her she gets really angry, and wants her mother. I am not the disciplinarian in our family either. My wife is the one that corrects our daughter and gets on to her. I work a rotating shift, so I am not at home much. My wife has told me she wished I was a truck driver, that way I would hardly ever be at home, because our daughter is happy when I am not around and my wife isn't stressed out. I have thought about family counseling, but I'm not sure if it would be the right thing. I feel like an outsider in my own home. I am the biological father, and have never had this problem with other children, or any of my neices or nephews. Help!!!

2006-08-07 19:51:08 · 29 answers · asked by dpm701 1 in Family

There is a female where I work, who I have no interest in whatsoever. I have no desire to be her friend, I have no desire to be MORE than friends. I just want her to leave me alone.

I've tried the direct approach "Please leave me alone" , "I dont want to be bothered", "I do not like you, please go away"

I've tried simply ignoring her.

I've tried insults (this is usually beneath me, but desperate times call for desperate measures)

I've tried approaching her friends and asking them to clue her in

I've tried approaching MY friends and asking them to clue her in

-nothing works-
Every day she is there, same manic grinning face, always spouting such cheer and optimistic happiness, Always trying to poke and/or hug me, Never getting the hint that I'd prefer it if she'd just go away.

The problem, at one time was contained to just the workplace, however it has now spread to public places, and in one case following me for 3 blocks, just to say hello.

How do I make her leave me alone?

2006-08-07 19:50:02 · 26 answers · asked by RexDart-EskimoSpy 2 in Singles & Dating

my bf use to be close friends with his xgf..they use to talk on a weekly basis..until i came along then they didnt talk much anymore..she would call..but he would never pick up..after a while she doesnt call anymore..i cant help but get bothered thinking that they use to be close while we were in a starting point in our relationship..and i think even if she were to call now..i would be upset..just knowing that it was her calling..his birthday is coming up too! knowing if she gets him a gift will make me unhappy...what can i do to make me stop thinking like this!

2006-08-07 19:49:54 · 7 answers · asked by chicksgirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

uhh theres this guy in shop and hes major cute but i dont really know if he likes me, but i like him......i dont know if i should cause im afraid that he doesnt like me....and if he doesnt it gunna ruin or friendship and i dont wanna do that. what should i do?!

2006-08-07 19:49:48 · 7 answers · asked by anynomous 1 in Singles & Dating

i feel so cheap

2006-08-07 19:48:59 · 23 answers · asked by letoya_5 1 in Family

My sister has been drinking everyday. At first she would drink 5-7 beers Friday, Saturday & Sunday. But now, I notice that she has been drinking everyday 4 beers. And on the weekends she drinks 15 beers. She says that beer taste like water. I try to tell her that she needs to seek help. But she tells me she is not a drunk and can stop whenever she wants to. The funny things is that its been going on for 3 months. I told my mom we need to take her to rehab, but she said "she does not need help.She is a grown woman that can figure thinks out on her own." My sister is 23. What should I do????

2006-08-07 19:48:06 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-08-07 19:47:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-07 19:46:58 · 3 answers · asked by OT 1 in Singles & Dating

You've got your husband (or wife), your children, mom, dad, brothers, sisters, and more! How can you possibly please everyone without dissapointing someone?

2006-08-07 19:46:24 · 7 answers · asked by munkees81 6 in Family

he liked me . i didnt . but now i do?! he thinks i dont like him at all and im just being flirty...basically he cannot believe i could start liking him now when i've been pushing away and showing him we are just PLATONIC FRIENDS.....but i've wised up and realized whats good and whats bad for me. and he is the best thing ever.we are hangin out 2morrow. talking every day. would it be okay if i kiss him ?
i think he still has a thing for me? any suggestions?

2006-08-07 19:45:22 · 2 answers · asked by Feodora 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-07 19:45:22 · 6 answers · asked by soroush_1363_ss 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm in poly study and he is in NS now..

2006-08-07 19:45:15 · 3 answers · asked by a V a 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-07 19:45:04 · 35 answers · asked by Miss.Tubby Bear 2 in Singles & Dating

How often would you give your husband of 5 years or more a ******** if he gave you an orgasm? How often would you want an orgasm? How often would you be willing to give him a ******** without having an orgasm? Please include how long you have been married and a rough estimate of your ages. I am 28 and my husband is 41.

2006-08-07 19:44:42 · 10 answers · asked by chrissy757 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this girl that I like but I dont know if she feels the same way towards me. She does all the typical stuff that would make me assume that she likes me but the one thing she does that I can never read is that she often ignores me. What I mean is that i often go out of my way to see what is up with her but she never does the same. I find myself starting all the conversations but even during those she sometimes seems more involved with other things... Is she playing hard to get or just wants me to get out of her face??

2006-08-07 19:42:59 · 9 answers · asked by silverice2388 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-07 19:42:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-07 19:42:35 · 11 answers · asked by Engkanto 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im drunk and lonely!!!!

2006-08-07 19:40:52 · 14 answers · asked by tony c 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-07 19:40:13 · 6 answers · asked by Mani 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know we love each other. Unconditionally. But, we've only been dating for about 4 months. We talked and want a future together. We talked of having our own place to be together. But is it too early to think, "Oh my God, I want to marrry this guy!"

2006-08-07 19:39:54 · 23 answers · asked by Athena 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a 17yr old daughter who has plans to attend a state college and have a bright future.She is a great kid with a bad attitude towards ME.Every decision I have ever made....every sacrifice has been for her and her brother..How do I continue to keep her on the right track? she is co-captain of her cheer squad...B student....has a job...Lots of friends...but lately getting her to have a decent conversation with ME is like close to impossible.I just need some advice on how to get our relationship back on track....Thanks...

2006-08-07 19:39:49 · 16 answers · asked by mrssmokestack003 2 in Family

2006-08-07 19:38:33 · 8 answers · asked by Parvathi 1 in Singles & Dating

I see like soooo many black girls with nice round butts and i admit i am very jealous. is it implants or genetic? some look fake, like they have very small waists and these big round butts its amazing

2006-08-07 19:38:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating