OK FInal Shot with Girlfriend (MY FIRST GIRLFRIEND) Love Her to death?

Question

I've been dating my girlfriend for 8 months now, and they've been wonderfull, we've had our up's, we've had our downs, all in all they've been great memory's, now, somethings up with my girlfriend, She went on vacation (I'm 16 guys) It's been 5 day's and i've never been without her for mre than 2 days so it was hard (Not seeing her), so now, i talk to her about my feelings, i tell her i think our relatinoship is crumbling, and tell her why, she says this on the phone exactly "like to deal with stupid thinks that allready been delt with
if its allready been delt with then why deal with it again"
I told her that this is how i feel i want to get though my insecurites as a team, not to argue and she gets defensiive, like she's hiding something. She gets argumentiive, i tell her and she thinks my feelings are stupid. Then i asked her. "Let me ask you if i keep telling you about this problem will you berak up with me?" She says. "Well, it will annoy the hell out of me yes". I love her ALOT!

but it still bohters me it's an unsolved problem, She doesnt show me affection, my feelings, and i've talked with her, she hasnt changed. and it hurts me because i gave her my heart, i feel for her, but i dont feel that in return.

Answer 1

dump her dude, and get a dictionary, "BERAK"?

Answer 2

only 5 days and u pester her?? wat r u..desperate?? its only a vacation she is on not an overseas attachment or sumthin. get a life! stop bringing up this nonsensical issue to her. any girl would go crazy if u keep calling her after 5 days without seeing her. what she said had some truth behind it also - no point in calling her on the 2nd day of vacation then on the 3rd then on the 4th but every call is talking about the same thing. why bring it up again? she is defensive only cos u r pestering her too much and dont allow her any frredom on her own to even go on a vacation. now how would u like it if ur whole family goes on vacation and u have to stay behind just cos ur gf disapproved of it? dont like it right? same goes for her!!!

what u shud do: stop calling her for a few days then send her a message saying u r sorry u annoyed her that time and hope she is safe and etc. then at the end say "i luv u" before hanging up. but dun call her everyday after that or that call is gonna go to waste

Answer 3

Well she should never say what you feel is stupid however if you’re insecure about something you can’t totally depend on her to make you feel “better” about it. If she clearly doesn’t think she can help you with this then figure it out on your own. In fact not wanting to face the problem without her shows that you are insecure in that area too. Girls like sensitive guys but sometimes they can take it too far.

Answer 4

Love is hard but know that she doesn't understand you enough right now mabey she is PMS or somethign you could talk to her mom.
Or you could just tell her she needs to listen adn if she doesn't if she keeps actin like this you love her a lot but you would break up with her.
She isn't acting like a good girlfrined would. She is acting like you don't matter. Just keep trying but only break up with her if you have to.

Answer 5

shes not supportive of you and doesnt give a sh!t about how you feel. u are being played. move on. u r young. go find someone who is more than hapy to keep u happy.. dont waste your time on her. shes probably sleepin around thats why shes so insensitive. ive seen it before.sor but its true..love hurts man.

Answer 6

im sorry but leave her
if she doesnt see it
shes not worth it
I KNOW I KNOW
you love her
I KNOW I KNOW
you gave her everything
I KNOW I KNOW
its hard to let go.
i've done it.. and im 16 also.
just to let you know ha =]
but its hard maybe a little easier on the girls
cause we got the sympathetic friends and the choc. and the ice cream
but leave her and find someone new while your still young ok .
lemme know how it goes..
good luck

Answer 7

i kno exactly how u feel. my man was on vaca in florida and now he is in cali. before he left we got into a HUGE fight!!!!! when he called me from florida we got to talking. he is also my 1st boyfriend. i love him to death. so i feel ur pain. so here is my advice!!?? leave her a message sayin that u love her and u wanna talk for real bout the problem at hand!! see wat she says. and if she gets mad then u kno that she is not serious!! then BREAK UP WIT HER!! obviously she is not serious bout u or ur relationship!!

Answer 8

it's been 5 days, relax. You're going to suffocate her.

Answer 9

can you talk to your parents or another guy who has experience with relationships.

Answer 10

Well then its easy...STOP bringing it up