my bf use to be close friends with his xgf..they use to talk on a weekly basis..until i came along then they didnt talk much anymore..she would call..but he would never pick up..after a while she doesnt call anymore..i cant help but get bothered thinking that they use to be close while we were in a starting point in our relationship..and i think even if she were to call now..i would be upset..just knowing that it was her calling..his birthday is coming up too! knowing if she gets him a gift will make me unhappy...what can i do to make me stop thinking like this!
2006-08-07 19:49:54 · 7 answers · asked by chicksgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-08-07 19:51:58 · answer #1 · answered by I love money 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am three points away from 800! and Oh, your question. You are insecure and need to not let other people bother you so much. To do this all you need to do is know that you can only depend on one person in this world and that is yourself.
2006-08-08 02:56:35 · answer #2 · answered by Dude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thinking about it will only make things worse. If she calls don't stress about it but let him know you don't like it. Its reasonable to act cautiously because she is his EX.
2006-08-08 03:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by zerospacegurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they were friends b4 u came into the picture leave it be. if he wanted to be with her again he wouldn't have been with you. So why exactly r u bothered?
2006-08-08 02:54:48 · answer #4 · answered by Max 77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look it's normal the way u feel.
but i prefer that u go talk to him in a sweet way telling him u be bothered when all this happens.
mayb he doesn't know u get bothered...he may change it when u tell him.
2006-08-08 02:53:46 · answer #5 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah ur feelings are normal. you should talk to him about it. and maybe you should meet her, that would be a really good idea if u befriend her and u find out if she has a secret agenda, if he is done with her, then he's done with her and they are just friends, and you are his and he's yours, its as simple as that even if she has a secret agenda-which i hope for u she doesn't- then talk to him about it, if she doesn't then its kool.
2006-08-08 03:00:39 · answer #6 · answered by ParadoxZero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL
2006-08-08 02:53:04 · answer #7 · answered by matt83840 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋