I've been this guy's friend since September. He had asked be out before, but I turned him down because of parental issues. (they're not an issue anymore.) Mid-July, I told him I liked him, but he didn't tell me whether he felt the same or if he just saw me as a friend. 2 days ago, he told me that he liked me too, but it seems really far off. I can understand if he's confused, but he didn't tell me his feelings until a couple days after my friend told him she was with someone. (he had been asking her to hang out, and she told him that if it was for date purpose, than she couldn't.) It seems like he was juggling me and my friend and didn't make the decision to like me until she turned him down because he already knew I liked him. I confronted him about it and asked him if I was just a substitute, because if so, that's really messed up. He told me he wouldn't do that, but I still have my doubts. Should I still go out with him? Or should I just stay friends with him? Any other advice?
2006-08-07
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