its it really fair for my ex gf to ask me to give 100% to becoming good friends now, when 3 months ago she wouldnt give 100% to working things out and staying together? what should i do?
2006-08-07 20:05:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she wants to control you. Don't give 100%, because you need to look out for yourself, too. Plus, what makes you think she'll give 100% if she wasn't all there for the actual relationship. Just be the friend that you know how to be and whatever happens happens.
2006-08-07 20:11:39 · answer #1 · answered by someone in the world 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not fair, but it makes you look better than her if you do put 100% into the friendship, you never know she may see it as a good thing and come back!
2006-08-08 03:10:04 · answer #2 · answered by wmichael.harvey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People change...and often it takes losing someone to bring apon change. So maybe 3 months ago she had you at her fingertips...and now that she's lost you she realizes what she's missing...so I say give her a chance...but don't put all your cookies back in that basket to soon.
2006-08-08 03:10:56 · answer #3 · answered by lanceh13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to give 100%...she's just being selfish. Doesnt' want you moving on.
2006-08-08 03:08:58 · answer #4 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not fair. Now she's not your girlfriend, she doesn't get to call the shots any more. I guess you'd better explain that to her.
2006-08-08 03:11:56 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to stay away
2006-08-08 03:09:44 · answer #6 · answered by saheli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we speak english here
2006-08-08 03:09:15 · answer #7 · answered by triumph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her again.
2006-08-08 03:09:02 · answer #8 · answered by sunil kumar shah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋