Well, my brother is trying to get me to not be friends with my best friend. He tells me all the reasons I should. Then when I think about it, I don't know if I should still be friends with her. I mean, she has messed up or broke many of things that I loved, she copys everything I do or have (I dyed my hair, she dyed hers, I got this pair of shoes, she got the same ones). And one day I asked her, "Are you my friend for my stuff or just because we're friends?" and she replied with, "It's kind of both because you have cool crap." So my question is, is she a good enough friend to keep? Or does she just want my stuff?
(lol I'm always here with questions like this)
Thanks.
2006-08-07 20:03:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wow, i know how you feel too (that happens a lot :P)
I mean, if she's still your friend... but then again i mean... if she's like copying you and stuff... thats really annoying
and if she messed up some of your life.. i dont see how u r still friends with her
eventually this friendship wil end... i dunno if u should end it up right away
let her spread out among other friends for awhile and dont hang for awhile with her
let her hangout with other people, you two will still be friends but maybe she'll lay off you for a little bit
2006-08-07 21:12:08 · answer #1 · answered by Whompa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To have a sence of style is something many do not have you should be happy that someone adores yours and even more coz she is your friend, sharing is caring dont leave her for that instead take her shopping with you, you never know when you will need her more than she needs you now.
your brother should respect your choices for friends and should not interfere unless its unhealthy for you and her.
take care
2006-08-08 03:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by Ruby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she copies yew maybe she's got a complex tht yew've got good things and she has not yewr takng it in the nagative way just watch the positive side she copies yew bcs she likes yew
2006-08-08 03:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by curse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, keep the questions short and sweet and to the point, you lost me in the third sentence.
2006-08-08 03:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by Peach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wahahahha....dat's a good question!!!!
I've got frens like dat as well... but i dun simple avoid them neither will i wan to judge them as good frens or not.
Firstly, tell urself...if she wans to copy u ..it means dat u're real cool wif all the stuffs u've bought, u should feel happy as u know gettin wat kind of things can make u look good. but she doesn't!!!
Second, always b sarcastic abt e things she bought if she copies u... tell her wat looks good on u doesn't means it'll look good on her(hope she gets e hint) dat's wat i always do to frens who copies me....wahahahaha
thirdly, it's always good to haf frens rather den enemy..... @ most u can haf less contact wif her but not to e extend of not keepin her as ur fren.
End of the day, i'm juz tryin to tell u ... deal wif her sacarstically.... wahahahaha
Cheers
wonderland83
2006-08-08 03:14:42 · answer #5 · answered by wonderland83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you no longer enjoy her company, it's time to move on. look for better friends. ones who you'll enjoy doing things with :)
2006-08-08 03:12:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear girl what are friends for .help her with her stuff. every body doesnt have that sense
2006-08-08 03:08:47 · answer #7 · answered by saheli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋