I've been this guy's friend since September. He had asked be out before, but I turned him down because of parental issues. (they're not an issue anymore.) Mid-July, I told him I liked him, but he didn't tell me whether he felt the same or if he just saw me as a friend. 2 days ago, he told me that he liked me too, but it seems really far off. I can understand if he's confused, but he didn't tell me his feelings until a couple days after my friend told him she was with someone. (he had been asking her to hang out, and she told him that if it was for date purpose, than she couldn't.) It seems like he was juggling me and my friend and didn't make the decision to like me until she turned him down because he already knew I liked him. I confronted him about it and asked him if I was just a substitute, because if so, that's really messed up. He told me he wouldn't do that, but I still have my doubts. Should I still go out with him? Or should I just stay friends with him? Any other advice?
2006-08-07 20:08:25 · 11 answers · asked by someone in the world 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you are content with being number two untill another number one comes along then go for it.
2006-08-07 20:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by freedd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was so sad that men were like that, I was actually in the same predicament.. I knew by instinct that my man is digging someone else yet, I have no proofs except words from all the people around me that wasn't my close friends ( so I was so hesitant to believe them) yet in time, it seemed that these people were telling the truth.. Im actually just waiting for the moment that I could actually have an evidence.. Same right? but your luckier that you already have the proofs and it even came from a good friend of urs. I think what you should really do right now is tell him straight how you feel about him, that you cant trust him that much knowing that he seemed lying on you.. evrything you wanted to say.. and just be friend with him. If he ask for a chance.. let him but remind him that it would be so difficult because he had broken your trust.. If he can withstand waiting long, and be able to make sacrifices for you then in that time go.. it's time to follow your heart..
2006-08-07 20:31:08 · answer #2 · answered by Creine_Athena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. I always have advice. Go out with him, but don't make it anything to serious..dont' read into any of his actions. Its seems that you were the back up girl for your friend..the second plan. If you really like this guy, then you're going to have to work on getting him focused on just you and not having a second plan.
2006-08-07 20:15:28 · answer #3 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you like a guy call him for all time, daily and be helpful to tell him you adore him after a pair of weeks. additionally be very jealous of another women folk, even his sister and mom. decide on some greater??? consume an excellent sort of pizza and drink beer daily. call out to artwork and basically stay domicile ordering pizza and eating beer, do it for months and months. not at all leave your domicile, basically order it in, the beer too. purchase a team of stuff on credit. each and every thing which you have ever wanted you will desire to purchase, do no longer shop for it nevertheless, basically positioned it on your mastercard that way you do no longer ought to attend. the main suitable piece of undesirable suggestion that I ought to offer includes swimming contained in the sea. consistently be helpful to tie products of lifeless bloody fowl scraps around your ankles, distinctly once you're surfing.
2016-09-29 00:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAY FRIENDS!!!!!!!!!!!! you dont want to date a guy who used you as a second or a last resort!! he isnt worth it! he might have used u just incase things didnt work out with your friend kinda like a backup! and thats not right! be searching for another man that will treat you better! like a first! wish you luck!
Jean
2006-08-07 20:14:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You understand the situation perfectly. You are his second choice, his back-up option. Don't go out with him. You deserve much better.
2006-08-07 20:16:43 · answer #6 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry i lost it after "Ive been this guys friend"
Maybe you should get on the phone to a girlfriend.
2006-08-07 20:31:11 · answer #7 · answered by Aussie Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make your question a bit concise so that it may be easier for others to understand....
your question confused me
2006-08-07 20:17:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well , i think just wait &watch
2006-08-07 20:39:08 · answer #9 · answered by hotchocredrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i got advice
shorten your details
2006-08-07 20:12:12 · answer #10 · answered by triumph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋