met freind on internet and after sometime he ask for sex for fun...we had it for fun..and during those emotional moments i said i love you..but actually boy does not love me.. neither i feel that love for him and i express it.. to quickly and he gets upset and not willing to share feelings...
2006-08-07 19:55:08 · 24 answers · asked by angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's merely sex. It was all he wanted from you. It was also too fast for you to say those three words to him that soon. Take it slow next time with the next dude.
2006-08-07 19:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 11⤊ 1⤋
1. Remember the rule: i before e except after c... Please use spell check!
2. WHY would you disrespect yourself so much to have "sex for fun" with a strange guy? Come on! Sex is fun for women when we are in trusting relationships. You even said that you had "those emotional moments" well those emotions aren't for sport sex. For God's sake, women have to allow a penis inside of our bodies. We need trust to allow another person in to the only thing on this earth we really own. You deserve at least that much, so I'd say it's time to take a self-esteem class and learn to love yourself. Stop letting men use you for a sperm receptacle. You can do better.
Peace.
2006-08-07 20:05:21 · answer #2 · answered by Polly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah sometimes in the heat of the moment we say things that we either don't really mean or are not sure of yet. It sounds like he got scared when he heard the words. You probably still like him as a friend and confused sex for love temporarily. Just talk to him and let him know how you feel today if your feelings have changed since the night you told him that you love him. Good luck.
2006-08-07 20:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by kitkool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MEN LIKE IT PHYSICAL WITH NO STRINGS ATTACHED SO UNLESS A GUY COMES OUTRIGHT TO YOU AND ASKS YOU OUT, DONT GO IMAGINING THAT HE LOVES YOU AND IS SCARED TO EXPRESS IT! and what was that internet love then sex? unless you wanna nurse a million heart aches i suggest you put your acts together and be real and ladylike
2006-08-07 20:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by Ruby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG ! Im so sorry . Maybe he does and just dont know how to tell you . Give him some time , then have a seriuos talk with him . Tell him how hurt you feel
2006-08-07 19:59:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the sex was for fun and the i love you part just came ou it didnt mean a thingt
2006-08-07 19:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by KP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is ridiculous when somebody search a friend in Internet!
Nothing surprising!
2006-08-07 20:00:30 · answer #7 · answered by woo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should have thought twice before saying and doing so...sweety u are so special .who cares if he doesnot want to share his feelings. enjoy your life and show the strength of the women.
2006-08-07 20:09:22 · answer #8 · answered by pratha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think thats the problem with you girls. You take everything so fast X-(
Now I think this relationship of your is everything but comfortable for both of you
2006-08-07 20:02:07 · answer #9 · answered by asif_ismail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friendship 1st love after
2006-08-07 20:01:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋