your best friend puts her boyfriend in front of you!?
I'm always there for her.
Her boyfriend is not going to be there
always. friends last forever..boyfriends dont..
why is she doing this!
2006-08-07 19:54:24 · 12 answers · asked by nice girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hey dnt worry
let her do wht she wants to do coz if ur friendshp is true thn one day she relize tht wht she left behind and wht she has right now she will sure come to u 1 day nd will relize her mistake too beleive me it will happen i hope it will help u to decide wht u hve to do nxt.
2006-08-07 21:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by jst_friends_4ever 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is not so unusual... for some when a new relationship starts up it is the focus of those involved. hard on the ones left on the side lines tho. give your friend some time to settle in. if she and you are young , say under 17 , this is all kinda still a learning stage for all. talk to her and tell her you feel she is putting you on the back burner to much and often. but dont expect her to fully understand what you are saying, at first. depending on how long the 2 of u have been friends, she might take a while to come to terms with and LEARN how to manage 2 different relationships at the same time. U 2 will have to learn this lesson, part of life, so try to NOT be so hard on her and stress out so much. God bless
2006-08-08 03:04:02 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not a real friend at all, maybe tell her how you feel if she gets affended well then tell her you will always be there for her expecially when her bf does something to hurt her make her feel like even though she is making a mistake you'll still support her then hopefully she'll realize what she is pushing away from her and maybe have a girls night out or go to lunch dont do the tlaking on the phone do it in person but just you two. tell me whats up good luck! p.s. she might also feel different with him like he can cuddle with her and all the guy girl stuff unlike a girlfriend u dont do that u do other things toghether. depends on the age too.
2006-08-08 03:04:36 · answer #3 · answered by SMILES:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends how new is this relationship? Is this in the still new I think I found love stage?? I know that when I first met my boyfriend I did leave my best friend hanging a bit. However she was understanding enough to know that this was a new relationship for me.
I know that friends are always there for you and boys come and go, however perhaps it would be wise of you to be understanding of their relationship. There may be a time when it will be your turn and wouldnt you want your friend in turn be considerate of the relationship you are trying to build?
Just be a tad patient but always be there for your friend. I hope this helped. :)
2006-08-08 03:07:55 · answer #4 · answered by iceycalm101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You 2 need to balance out your relationship to where you both have time for other's and each other. Double the date, call 4 way, there are ways to deal with this. Although steer away from being the 3rd wheel,it's annoying.She should understand how you feel and if she knows then just step back she'll see how you feel or miss you and start inviting you to do things with them. Just talk to her.
2006-08-08 03:08:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's messed up is when they give you the excuse "We're in love. You just dont' know how it feels because you're b/f dumped you". Hate when they do this. They get too wrapped up in themselves, thats why. But arent' we the dumb best friends that still catch them when they fall after the b/f dumps them. Yeah... I know what' you're saying here. It sucks...its like they forget they even have friends.
2006-08-08 02:58:39 · answer #6 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its really messed up! shes just blinded by whats really infront of her. she is taking you forgranted (sp?). but yeah. just give ur friend a little time, or ask her if you guys could have some time just to yourselves? it might help her rethink that and know that you are always there for her when he wont be.
2006-08-08 03:32:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally i have a strict policy about not doing that but i know how girls can. I used to just give her a break she'll figure it out and need you cut her slack just this once. she wont forget it
2006-08-08 03:59:16 · answer #8 · answered by tini one 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. If any friend asked me to put them before my husband, I'd tell that friend to kiss my big fat butt.
2006-08-08 03:05:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is messed up that just shows you what kind of friend she really is.
2006-08-08 02:58:18 · answer #10 · answered by southern girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋