I recently started dating someone who was date raped right after we met. After 3 weeks of dating she told me what happened. She did this becuase every time we were getting intimate, we would stop....she didn't want me to think that it was anything I had done. I didn't run away from her after hearing this, and I really like her and who she is, and I am willing to be patient. I am being respectful of her, but is she better off if I don't date her anymore? Is she going to have a tougher time moving on with me around? I know she feels strongly about me, but I can't get any commitment from her, not sexual, but in referring to me as a boyfriend and being exclusive. She isn't dating anyone else, but I still have my own insecurities about this. I don't want to wait around for 6 months until she is ready only to have her not want to go there with me. It has been two months and I just want to do what's right for both of us.
Any advice would be helpful.
Thanks.
2006-08-06
14:56:24
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dgrblu
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