Not obviously at the same time, but sometimes my 10-year-old daughter sleeps in the bed that they sleep in when the kids aren't staying with my ex. I know the sheets aren't being changed. Is it prissy of me to demand he stop doing this and go buy another bed?
2006-08-06 14:54:25 · 16 answers · asked by ValGal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That is just nasty!! He should freakin no better... he just won father of the year for his idiotic behavior... I would stop that now!
2006-08-06 14:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by nknicolek 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok how do you know this is really happening? Sometimes when there is an ex you might be still a little jellous and think things are happening that are not. Believe me this happend to my now husband with his ex wife. She said things like that too. But they were not true. I guess you need some kind of proof that that really is happening. If you are so concerned send her with a sleeping bag and tell her to sleep on top of the sheets in her bag. That way she wont be in that bed. But maybe ask him about the sleeping arrangements and where exactly she sleeps. If there is only one bed. Then by law! For a child to stay at his house he has to have a bed and a bedroom for her.
2006-08-06 15:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know they had sex in the bed without changing the sheets? I think it is just bugging you he is having sex with someone else. If you want her to have another bed and he has the space.. go buy her a bed and give it to him. You ex wife complain about everything and what to have a say in every darn thing. The kid is half his he gets to have just as much say as you in raising her.
2006-08-06 15:05:27 · answer #3 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF the sheets aren't being changed,then by all means,throw a fit!!It would be VERY different if she slept on the same bed(different times)with clean linen.Hotels do it,people do it,etc...as LONG as it's clean.I am married and in NO way would I let my children sleep in my bed,without cleaning the sheets,after intimate relations with my husband.I would be upset too.
2006-08-06 15:11:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol how do u know the sheets arent being changed??? u have hidden video camera's there?????? doubtful.. Yes ur being petty.. ur sounding like a extremely jealous , bitter woman.. guess what, i bet they may of even drank from the same glass or ate of the same plate.. OMG your child has your x husbands girlfriends coodies.. lol.. How about this.. if its that much of a problem for u to phathom ur child sleeping in a bed that the horrible woman is sleeping in, how about u tell her not to sleep in her daddy's bed.. and to either sleep in her own bed or on the couch.. U need to stop worrying so much about the petty crap, things that guess what u cant control.. and that ur assuming and not that u actually KNOW about.. Pick and Chose your fights wisely.. or ur child is going to end up in the middle of a horrible relationship between u and her father... do u want that for her, just because u cant seem to stop dreaming up problems in your own head???
2006-08-06 15:03:45 · answer #5 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer to pay half for a new mattress or air bed for your daughter to sleep on when she's over there. Have your daughter take her own pillow, pillowcase, and sheets when she goes over there. Make sure she brings it all back home with her each time.
2006-08-06 15:13:10 · answer #6 · answered by AB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing prissy bout that girl! Even if you don't want to say it to them like that you should at least suggest your daughter have her own bed. You can even say for her privacy or whatever, but I wouldn't allow that to continue.
2006-08-06 15:03:10 · answer #7 · answered by Diamonds_4Ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're no longer overreacting and that i'd be very careful of this situation. first and perfect, the entire loss of recognize. i ask your self how he would experience in case you saved photos of your ex and you in mattress and bragged with regard to the intercourse life? Secondly, the plain connection (whether its in simple terms the sexual section) together with his ex. some issues are extra effective left unsaid, and whether he feels this way, why would he tell persons and shop photos understanding the possibilities of the practise getting decrease back to you? you would be able to desire to set some floor regulations and ultimatums.
2016-09-28 23:46:48 · answer #8 · answered by haslinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it, people have sex in all types of places and how do you
know for a fact he doesn't wash the sheets? you sure aren't around any more miss scorned ex-wife
2006-08-06 15:23:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you're just being whiny. Grow up.
PS I bet they have sex on the sofa and the living room floor and the kitchen counters and the dining room table, too.
2006-08-06 15:09:20 · answer #10 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has your daughter ever stayed at a Hotel? thats your answer
2006-08-06 15:03:57 · answer #11 · answered by cardog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋