Well Im In love Yes i might Be a lil 2 Young but i realli am in love.. Only Problem is im in the with a guy who says he is gay... Werid thing is he flirts with me he talks about Us moving in with each other when i say ill have my own bedroom he says no we we share then i said ill have my own bed he said No we will share a bed... Im realli confused i thought if u were gay u like ur own sex u know but with him i dont know he says he loves me and all but he says he is Gay i need some answers from Mothers OR realli From all YOu guys
2006-08-06 14:55:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wut really confuses me i say i will have my own room he wants me to share a room with him he wants to share a bed with men and he is gay he told me he is gay and my best friend in the pic well was in the pic was his ex man im confused even more
2006-08-06 15:05:55 · update #1
Well I want to be friends with him but theres that feeling that i wanna be with him he has treated me good betta than any other Guy u know But i dont wanna have sex with him trust me on that i do want a family maybe with him but not a sex rel.... I guess im wanting to be with him bc i feel pretty around him around other guys i dont feel that way
2006-08-06 15:19:09 · update #2
He more then liklly has soem feeling for you and wants you to have chieldren for him. just talk to him and see if you do move intogeather if hes going to keep seeing guys or not, just talk with him not sure if your into that but only time and qwestions will tell. you cant epect things to happen without asking qwestions or siting around waiting for them to happen. He might even be willing to turn strait to have a familly. Good luck on everything and just remmeber be honest with him.
2006-08-06 15:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by gogo69er 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If the guy says he's gay, then you don't need to get your hopes up. It could be a phase, it could be experimenting, it could just be for attention, but either way.... You have to think about you. If you let yourself get involved with this guy you are asking for it later, because you "knew he was gay". The best thing you can do is to try to get some space and time away from him, so you can get a hold on your feelings. He needs time and space to find out if he is really gay, or just confused. You won't be able to change him or to speed this process along. If you love him you will back off and let him figure things out. Not to mention... You want to spare your heart the pain of falling for someone is really really really unavailable. Time will tell, so be patient.
2006-08-06 22:02:41 · answer #2 · answered by lnfinitelylnteresting 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey how old are you? look it doesn't matter. If the man is really your friend gay or not he wouldn't be stringing you along. Have you told him how you felt about him?? If not let him know that you are confused. Honesty is best hon. The worst he can say is that he doesn't feel the same way but at least you will know.. Good luck hon and if you are young, keep in mind you have the rest of your life to deal with this type of drama later on in life. Get yourself together before you bring someone else into your life. Be Independent. Be strong! good luck
2006-08-06 22:01:50 · answer #3 · answered by trouble comes a knockin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Number One ? is--Do you know for a fact he is gay or just by what he tells you? Most gay men will not share a bed or bedroom with a female..Most gay men will act totally different..How long have you really known this man? Age has nothin to do with it really just experience does..think within your heart and really ask yourself one question...do you really love him with all your heart to be faithful to him no matter if another man comes your way? find out if he is really gay or just sayin that ok..Do your heart a favor..God bless you
2006-08-06 22:01:02 · answer #4 · answered by glowworm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hon he's either bi or he wants to be a closet gay and use you as the "door" Don't let him do this if in fact that is the situation because your feelings are going to get stronger while he is still going to be using you to cover the fact that he's a gay man. Good Luck
2006-08-06 22:00:36 · answer #5 · answered by Angel B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't trust him. He's young isn't he?(under 30)
NO QUESTION,
He wants to use you. Please don't let your feelings get hurt by that
LIKE I SAID HE'S A MAN!
Please read my other answer to this situation too.
PS: Any mother IN ALL OUR WORLD would tell you to run and don't look back!!!!!!Except for my mother -
She would pray to God that you will be assisted in a correct direction for yourself and she would not pass judgment on you.
"My mother is one of a kind." She didn't even pass judgment on Jenna Jameson when we watched and listened to her documentary on the E channel.
We are all created equal!
Start thinking about what you want to be when you grow up.
Don't forget, the plan is, you are going to grow up and you must be self relient or..
chances are, you will be needy, dependent, co-dependent & need a man.
I'm sorry but, who cares what his story is, you have your future to think about.
Do you want to be a housewife with minamal skills that needs him? COME ON!!!
AS CHER'S CHARACTER WOULD SAY IN MOONSTRUCK "SNAP OUT OF IT!"
2006-08-07 00:10:59 · answer #6 · answered by GirL GreatfuL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be bisexual... think long before doing any moving in, as this relationship is doomed from the beginning. You deserve someone who really loves you and wants to be with only you. He is letting you know that you will NOT be the only one in his bed when he speaks of being gay. If you do go through with it, be prepared for sexual diseases, even protection is not always 100% and it is for life when they are contracted. Please please please re-consider. Best wishes.
2006-08-06 22:02:11 · answer #7 · answered by still learning at 56 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might be BI, but I would not have sex with Him unless you Know for a fact that he has always used a condom, and had a recent AIDS test
2006-08-06 22:00:34 · answer #8 · answered by vipers36kosovo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN! This man is playin with your emotions. If he's gay, don't play into the roommate thing until he calms down.
2006-08-06 21:59:41 · answer #9 · answered by Baybee Gurrl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just make love to him better than a guy can (that's easy) and he'll never be gay again!
2006-08-07 01:19:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋