2006-08-06 15:03:00 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Reflect on the good times you had with your sister. Don't dwell on her death. Remember her life instead. Cherish the memories. Know she is in a better place, free of pain and misery. She is happy and watching you from above. I'm so sorry.
2006-08-06 15:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by nobodyd 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry to hear that. Losing a family member you're close to is never easy. But don't dwell on it. Honor your sister's memory by writing a short story or a poem, drawing a picture, or writing a song. Just try to let it out, and you'll feel the pain fade away. It'll be replaced by thoughts of all the things you loved about your sister.
Don't think it's weird if you still "talk" to her, because it's not. She'll hear you.
2006-08-06 15:09:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My baby brother has been gone 11 years last month. The grief process is different for everyone. Celebrate the time you had with your sister. Let those memories keep you going. Just because she died, doesn't mean she is gone. My brother is with me everyday. As the years go by it can get easier to live with the loss of her being actively in your life. You know how she would want you to be if she were gone...keep going...live and be happy.
2006-08-06 15:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by rainysnana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that your sister would want you to go on to live a good and happy life. She'll always be in your heart. It helps to keep a journal to write about how you're feeling, also, get out and do things with other people, or start up a new hobby that you always wanted to try. Pray for help in healing! Take care hon
2006-08-06 15:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by violindiva72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am truly sorry for your loss. My best friend was my dad. He died when I was 28. I am now 45 and still miss him every day.
I am sure your sister would want you to have a good life. We always miss them but to honor their memory we need to carry on and be the best person we can be. That's not to say try to live life for them, but in memory of them. Keep her close in your heart and when good things happen, know she is there celebrating with you. When times get tough, her spirit, in memory, is there to help you and always will be.
2006-08-06 15:13:44 · answer #5 · answered by Lonnie P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister died DEC.30th of 2005 she was my best friend. I think of her everyday I cry alot. sometimes I don't know how I will go on without her. But you have to move on you can't let yourself die with them. Just try to remember all the good times. I know it is not easy. Losing a sibling is a horrible thing. It is by far the worst thing I have ever been through. I try To focus on the positive in my life like my kid. Just try to keep your mind on good things. I know all of this is easier said then done. but if your sister was truly your best friend she would want you to go on . I hope you find what you need to go on without her. good luck
2006-08-06 15:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by bridget36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I'm feeling your pain my sister died on July 15th of this year, and it is hard to go on.. she died of cancer had just turned 41 on June 15th of this year and had a 12 year old daughter it all happened so fast it threw us ( four of us left) for a loop, she was my shopping buddy , my drinking buddy, we had secrets, we could talk about everything an it stayed with just us, she promised me she was coming home (from hospital) and we were gonna have crab legs and grill out at my house like we always did and i was waiting ( i live out of town) but instead they were calling the family in and we totally could not believe that was happening i miss her so, so much it really hurts....i feel you trust me i do...
2006-08-06 15:16:52 · answer #7 · answered by uimblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss. Have faith in God. Know that if we believe in God that we will be with our loved ones in time. I lost my husband, my dad and my brother in a little over a years time. That was in 2000 and I still miss them so much. My husband was my very best friend and it is so hard being without him. Even though I have married again there isn't a day goes by that I don't wish I could be with him. If it hadn't been for my faith that God knows best and that knowing they are with him I don't think I would have been able to go on. So my suggestion to you would be to pray and pray a lot. God is there and listening.
2006-08-06 15:14:46 · answer #8 · answered by Beth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me I know what you're going through. MY grandma died on the first of January. Just a few days before my birthday. I thought when she was gone I would lock myself in my room, but the best thing to do is to try and find a way to have fun. cause with me my grandma was the person I had my fun with.
good luck & sorry:(
2006-08-06 15:08:29 · answer #9 · answered by Kisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep her in your heart and remember the good times you had.
Get a journal and write letters to her about things going on in your life. She isn't there in body form, but she's there inside you.
You probably know exactly how she would respond to something. Use that as her way of talking to you now.
2006-08-06 15:17:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋