Family & Relationships - 6 August 2006

please put points between the letters of those forbiden words(f.e.t.i.s.h and hard c.o.r.e) so that i can downlowd your answers through filters.thank you

2006-08-06 18:46:28 · 1 answers · asked by unicorn 2 in Friends

2006-08-06 18:46:20 · 9 answers · asked by indianguy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why dont girls have guts to talk about sex openly............
or even enjoy talking about it with a guy???????
why??

2006-08-06 18:45:29 · 17 answers · asked by v_87_p 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-06 18:44:44 · 11 answers · asked by pushuda 1 in Weddings

2006-08-06 18:44:35 · 20 answers · asked by Joe T 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to compare something between guys that play a girl vocally by telling her sweet stuff etc... and a guy that really want a girl but cannot vocally prove it.
LET SAY
Roy came up to u with a very strong communication skillz and he be telling how special u are and nice u are and within a few minutes u feel like u wanna be wit him.

Then after few hours Lee came up to u and he trying so hard to talk to u he almost dont make sense but u can just tell he likes u but he cant Vocally say it, while u cant even resist Roy's words.

2006-08-06 18:44:27 · 14 answers · asked by stickdriver 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-06 18:44:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

school counselor. any advice

2006-08-06 18:42:21 · 59 answers · asked by MS. DAISY 2 in Family

i,ve known this guy for 3 years we never dated just been talking but yet he is constantly saying he loves me and wants me in his life more than anything.he has very low self esteem and says im the only good thing in his life yet he does stupid things he goes long periods of time without contacting me then begs me not to leave his life.we have been through several ups and downs where we didnt speak for months but yet he seems to always come back around and i dont know why since he cant seem to do the right thing why not just leave me alone all together?anyway i havent heard from him in a few months and he hasnt even called me to let me know whats going on or at least telll me he doesnt wanna be my friend any more. i mean why do guys do dumb stuff like this? wouldnt it be easier to never call me ever again?? someone please help me understand this!

2006-08-06 18:42:10 · 2 answers · asked by aleah2515 1 in Friends

Hi! Just wondering what you do to beat the bordom and lonliness? I wouldn't go back to work, but is there something that you do to keep yourself upbeat? Please, no mean answers...just real ones. Thanks!

2006-08-06 18:40:59 · 26 answers · asked by The Nag 5 in Family

Me, I've rarely ever found teh stereotypical version of beauty in America appealing. The girls from the Dove campaign for real beauty are really beautiful to me. I like a larger than average girl w/ maybe a small "baby phat" on her stomach, large breasts, large lips, thighs butt and eyes. I'm a round featured person. However I do like symmetrical faces. Don't be afraid to mention emotial qualities as well. I'm in a transitional faze of re-discovery but I used to like girls who were almost sub-servient, emotionally supporting, and give me what I want always. Like a spoiled kid. I'm starting to feel lif thats what I would want I'd have to be willing to be a responsible provider, emotionally balanced and fully know myself. Thank you

2006-08-06 18:40:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should I start looking and maybe start dating now, or wait until I lose all of my weight. I'm toning as I go, but I fear it's my shyness that's going to get in my way also. I'm usually the life of the party when I was heavy. I mean after a while, you just get used to mean people. But, now things are changing. And, I look so different. Better, and healthier of course. The dating scene is just very scary, and it seems it gets worse the older you get. What do all of you think? Please be gentle, I do have feelings.....

2006-08-06 18:37:43 · 16 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I met this gurl online. She comes from a very average family of 3 sisters and their parents. The thing is, is that they are all still studying, and I think that their parents depend on her very much, being the eldest.

But I can say that she has very deep feelings for me. And I personally love her a lot. She has told me abou how she feels. But her parents have told her before that she needs to be there for her sisters. Would it be wrong of me to wisk her away?

2006-08-06 18:36:47 · 14 answers · asked by Lambada 2 in Singles & Dating

Im using my friends account and need some help.....Ok, here's the story... I met this guy and he is an amazing guy. He broke up with his girlfriend and we started hanging out and talking everyday and doing stuff... then yesterday, he text's me and tells me that he loves his ex and he cant talk to me anymore because his ex would get mad and that he lost her in the first place because of me, which isnt true.... Then she decides to text me, and told me I cant talk to him and that this is all my fault and basically the whole deal got turned around on me... What should I do? Now he wont talk to me, and I cant imagine loosing a great friend like him....

PS: HIS EX GIRLFRIEND AND I DO NOT GET ALONG AT ALL....

We have had previous fights before the guy came in the picture...

But also... she is my sisters best friend

2006-08-06 18:36:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked her about this and she said she did met the guy just once and even slept at his house that day, in his bed. But then she swore by her family's lives that nothing happened that night, he didn't even try touching her. After that she never saw him again, although he kept on calling and writing her emails which she said she ignored. Should I believe her? Is it really possible that nothing could have happened that night, not even a kiss? Hopefully I could get some answers from a female's point of view. I trust my girl but I think sleeping in a guy's bed with the guy and saying that nothing happened seemed impossible to believe.

2006-08-06 18:36:06 · 16 answers · asked by zachary_red 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok well it started last night I was in bed when I herd my 12 year old daughter cry. I ran to her room. She said she made a stroy on the computer. But when she said she was going to work on it some more. SHe saw it was half way deleted. What I mean is she was on chapter 12 but she said it was down to chapter 5. She started to cry some more. I told her to go to bed. The next morning I fond her on the couch all mopey. She wouldn't even talk to me. Once she did she said I wish I wasent being pounished. For what I asked her. I dont know, she replied. So know I'm here looking at my mopey little girl. PLEASE what can I do to make her fill better???? I mean I looked at the story she made well hafe of it and it was wonderful! I cant bering the story back but can I bring her smile back??????????

2006-08-06 18:34:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

girls u should know dis!

2006-08-06 18:34:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well I'm 16, been going out with my girl for 8 months, In the begining, its been good we always talked, the one day we didnt on the phone (christmass the day after) she was extremely sad and told me that she missed me, and showed her love for me, now, 8 montjhs later, she goes on a trip with her mom, sister, and cousin, and she doesnt even call, she occasinaly leaves me a message on myspace saying that she's having fun, but sjhe never shows it anymore, how do i get this back? I think she thinks I'm druling for her, that ill do anything so she is acting this way because she knows what do i do guys i love this girl alot and dont want to loose her but my heart is starting to hurt ;-(

2006-08-06 18:32:59 · 10 answers · asked by Jordon H 1 in Singles & Dating

Lets say your gf is treating you like crap and shes the only one that will give you a chance, so you are stuck with her unless you wanna be alone and so therefore you have no choice but to try to get her to change. So since you don't have the choice to be brake up with her and be with someone else, is it ok to sleep with her bestfriend to make her jealous as a well to get her to change?

2006-08-06 18:30:51 · 10 answers · asked by 56 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK...this will sound odd I am sure.
My husband and I have been married 5 years....very happy.
He is not blessed "size -wise"..which is fine with me.I love just being close and intimate with him.
After years of prodding and asking - he knows my boyfriend before him was VERY well-endowed.
Its now our "routine", our foreplay, talking about my old boyfriends size.
I dont mind it every now and then....BUT...its like he cant get excited unless I am talking about the black guy I was with and the guys "size".
He is pushing for me to have an affair with my ex....he says he wants me to have that "kind of sex" again.
Its like....i want him to drop it...but he wont stop begging me to cheat!
I'm to the point of seeing my ex, just to make him happy - and yes, i'll admit I miss how he was with me in bed.
I would never be thinking about him if my husband did not talk about it EVERY time we make love.
Any ideas why he is pushing for this to happen?
Has anyone done this "for the hubby"?

2006-08-06 18:30:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

we last 2 months and he is coming back, (because he went to work out of the country for 4 months and we couldnt manage the long distance relationship) i still miss him and i dont know how to be with him when i meet him again

2006-08-06 18:29:42 · 8 answers · asked by grayhe 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm transfering to another school and at my old school I met this guy that has been trying to get with me. My first year there we started out as friends. Until last summer we started talking and messing around he kept telling me he wanted to be with me. I didn't want to be with him because I couldn't trust him. Because of this female.Then beginning of my second year there I told him I just wanted to be friends. But we continue to mess around and I would see him with the other female. He said they were not together or weren't messing around. Now that I'm about to leave he saying he wants to be with me and he can see us being together. He said he had a long distane relationship before. My question is should I go ahead and be with him even though we are at different schools? Or should I just go about my business and move.

2006-08-06 18:29:25 · 8 answers · asked by Lady C 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my husband a long time and it never ceases to amaze me that he just lets it rip whenever he wants to. ugh, he did it again. I love him but that's just nasty after awhile. Would you guys like it if us women just ripped one off whenever we felt the need?

2006-08-06 18:29:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Lets say your gf is treating you like crap and shes the only one that will give you a chance, so you are stuck with her unless you wanna be alone and so therefore you have no choice but to try to get her to change. So since you don't have the choice to be brake up with her and be with someone else, is it ok to sleep with her bestfriend to make her jealous as a well to get her to change?

2006-08-06 18:28:53 · 3 answers · asked by 56 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-06 18:28:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-06 18:28:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

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2006-08-06 18:28:03 · 10 answers · asked by Biggz 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-06 18:27:14 · 5 answers · asked by molicus 1 in Singles & Dating

today i went to a neiboors bitrthday party and i met a 14 girl she went out with my friend. i seemed to be doing good but i didnt get her number. Im going to get back at her someway i just was being not serios i need to to no after ive gone far enoph what words and how to ask her out

2006-08-06 18:26:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-06 18:25:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships