What's your definition of beauty?

Question

Me, I've rarely ever found teh stereotypical version of beauty in America appealing. The girls from the Dove campaign for real beauty are really beautiful to me. I like a larger than average girl w/ maybe a small "baby phat" on her stomach, large breasts, large lips, thighs butt and eyes. I'm a round featured person. However I do like symmetrical faces. Don't be afraid to mention emotial qualities as well. I'm in a transitional faze of re-discovery but I used to like girls who were almost sub-servient, emotionally supporting, and give me what I want always. Like a spoiled kid. I'm starting to feel lif thats what I would want I'd have to be willing to be a responsible provider, emotionally balanced and fully know myself. Thank you

Answer 1

For me, it is rarely a physical feature that first attracts me to a guy, other than perhaps noticing if they have friendly eyes. I don't even pay much attention to a guy's appearance unless they have a great sense of humor, seem nice, and are able to carry on a good conversation. I guess at this point of my life, it is the inner beauty that I find more appealing, and their abstract qualities effect my perception of their physical ones, as sappy as that may seem. A guy can look amazing, but if he is a jerk, he hasn't got a chance. I need someone to be my friend, before I can trust them with my heart.

Answer 2

Your question is interesting to me because it almost sounds like you're desperate for someone to either validate your idea of beauty or give you something to look for. Beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder. Beauty is a feeling, an opinion. It's subjective. But it doesn't subject, if you get my meaning. Looking for someone to "mommy" you is not a healthy way of seeking a relationship. I'm glad you are "re-discovering"... whatever it is you are, because it sounds like you need some re-evaluation. Yes, n=being emotionally balanced never hurt!

Answer 3

Well, I think I'm beautiful. I'm petite, only 5'2 and 110 pds. I have plain eyes and features. And I have a slim body, with no hips or really no shape. But I think I'm beautiful. I think beauty is within the eyes of the beholder. It depends on your culture and what you like. Most importantly it depends on if the person has a great personality. Some of the ugliest people have the greatest personalitys, making them look so desireable. And then thier are gorgeous people who have bad personalitys making them look/act so ugly.

Answer 4

To me, nobody is perfect. Like Christina's Song 'I am beautiful no matter what they say, words cant bring me down'. Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder. Its the inside tat is important & not the outside. If she is beautiful but she gonna break ur heart, wats the point, right?

Answer 5

For me in a guy I never follow the stereoptype. Its not because I want to be different I just always find myself attracted to the opposite. Alot of girls would have a muscley ripped guy with broad shoulders short dark hair, tall , on their wall. However, my ideal guy is thin, little muscle and average height. I love being able to hold the guy in my arms without feeling muscles i dunno why always have. They need nice eyes so I can stare into them as well. :) and nice teeth, I dont like gnarly teeth :B egh. And lets see yep thats all! For personality, I like laid back guys who aren't hyped up in drama and stuff like that. I like a guy down to earth who isn't afraid to be silly

Answer 6

I think beauty(as per your likes) is a relative definition,its never absolute..coz when u talk about such sexy features,it always disclose your views or what you really desires a girl to be............
but in my definition,a beautiful person is one who LOVES YOU from deep inside of his/her heart,that person only is unique and hard to find...
so,if u r realy luking for a beautiful girl make sure you find in her the quality mentioned above and see how BEAUTIFUL she really is........

Answer 7

For me, beauty is something that is unique to a person. It could be the body, the behavior, the personality. Beauty is unique in every person.

Answer 8

The quality that gives pleasure to the mind or senses and is associated with such properties as harmony of form or color, excellence of artistry, truthfulness, and originality

Answer 9

Someone whom you think fits you in all ways. Beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder.

Answer 10

BEAUTY ... is more than just the way u look ...is to be a very good person ... a very good friend ... very good at doing good things to other people ... it being u and not something that people want u to be ... that's what it is to me .... ;)