I asked her about this and she said she did met the guy just once and even slept at his house that day, in his bed. But then she swore by her family's lives that nothing happened that night, he didn't even try touching her. After that she never saw him again, although he kept on calling and writing her emails which she said she ignored. Should I believe her? Is it really possible that nothing could have happened that night, not even a kiss? Hopefully I could get some answers from a female's point of view. I trust my girl but I think sleeping in a guy's bed with the guy and saying that nothing happened seemed impossible to believe.
2006-08-06 18:36:06 · 16 answers · asked by zachary_red 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, I think Floyd above has the right answer for you. It's tricky.
2006-08-13 16:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you dont trust her! If there is no trust you dont have much there anyway. Sounds like she was checking out her options, and going to see if the other guy might be a better catch. I'd start looking for a new gf.
Good luck!
2006-08-14 17:42:21 · answer #2 · answered by Harley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had better believe her or forget about her.
She didn't have to tell you any thing did she?
So if you see what you like go for it. Or say that the thought of what happened is something you can't live with. And say goodbye.
The next time she will think longer before she talks to much about her past.
2006-08-13 11:44:08 · answer #3 · answered by Floyd B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not rewally impossible because i have male friends who i roll with like they are my girls and we slept in the same bed and nothing happen i was at the top and he was at the bottom but im just saying if she had her mind set to not be sexual then trust she didnt do nuthin
2006-08-13 19:55:48 · answer #4 · answered by PHATO4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it really matter if she did anything or not? Trust is the issue and she lost that by not being upfront about her chatting and meeting him to begin with. If you and her are just dating (not committed) then you have you have no basis for expecting her to not see other people.
2006-08-14 14:17:49 · answer #5 · answered by OCSiren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,,,it is very difficult, she might be saying the truth, I mean if she wore by her family that nothing happened....she might be saying the truth. But either you trust her or don't bother even trying in that relationship, without trust there is nothing.
2006-08-14 04:55:57 · answer #6 · answered by Luna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats an extremley tuff situation i dont know but you know women they wont give in to anything so chances of you getting somthing out of her are pretty slim. I dont know keep trusting her, you have be the strong one, shell feel bad eventually, use your innosince against her ifit comes down to that. lol. only if it comes down to that though. dam ive been there but turns out that she was telling the truth or at least i managed to believe her. but hey you know why i did "I LOVED HER" so i guess thats why we're still together, (NOT!) good luck!
2006-08-06 18:58:04 · answer #7 · answered by Adrian N. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The point here is not you trust her or not but is she worth it?
If she's worth it then just let it go. If she's not worth it then scrutinize it until your satisfied. Be aware, if you scrutinize it it'll just end up tasting sour no matter how much sugar you coat it with.
2006-08-14 07:55:14 · answer #8 · answered by IKNOWALL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What she did or did not do before you met her has nothing to do with now. She with you isn't she if you keep thinking about his she won't be for long.
2006-08-14 16:49:43 · answer #9 · answered by robert d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust ur girl, the worst thing u could do is not try to bleve her.
2006-08-14 13:58:22 · answer #10 · answered by Rebecca Forever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋