Lets say your gf is treating you like crap and shes the only one that will give you a chance, so you are stuck with her unless you wanna be alone and so therefore you have no choice but to try to get her to change. So since you don't have the choice to be brake up with her and be with someone else, is it ok to sleep with her bestfriend to make her jealous as a well to get her to change?
2006-08-06 18:30:51 · 10 answers · asked by 56 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Huh?? Are you nut's?? Her best friend IS off limits hun!!!
2006-08-06 18:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by maryannmccarthy2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats most definitely a bad idea. You think that you need to be with her because to be alone is so tough. I know exactly what you are going through but I ended up having to be alone for a few years. I went three years without dating and without having a girl at home or near home wating for me to get off work and such. But after three years of waiting I was givien a great woman, though she has her own little issues that drive me insane I like her all the same. Sometimes you need to be alone for some time to see what life is like, for you to resolve some issues of your own and finally realizing you may just be able to settle down. Try being alone for once, I know and you know it will be hard but its the best way for now. Remember, this, right now, is a fraction of your life and you need to make sure you find someone you can spend your life with. Dont rush but dont take things too slow. Good luck, hope all turns out well for you.
2006-08-07 01:47:35 · answer #2 · answered by niceguy4agze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you aren't stuck with anyone. And you do have the choice to break up with her. You sleeping with her best friend will do nothing but harm everyone involved. Sounds to me like you need to grow up before you have a girlfriend in the first place. The only way she is going to change is to hate you for hurting her. If you don't like the way she is......walk away.
2006-08-07 01:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats the worse thing to do is sleep with her best fren. you will for sure be alone and u say u dont want to be alone. if ur not happy with her then ur better off just to leave and find someone else because you cant change anyone no matter what u think, sorry! good look
2006-08-07 02:14:07 · answer #4 · answered by snuggles33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!that will change her for the worse just turn the table and treat her like crap a little bit noboby likes there own medicine.if you truly love her you will stay away from her friends.
2006-08-07 02:01:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask if it is okay, obviously you know it's not, so why waste your time on here? you don't always have to be in a relationship to be happy, dont' ever feel that you need to justify yourself through someone else
2006-08-07 01:42:48 · answer #6 · answered by loca420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No unless you want to find your balls in her purse later on.
2006-08-07 01:40:22 · answer #7 · answered by DG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me you can't change anyone that doesn't want to be changed.....and by the way are u nutzZZZ???? No not the best friend...........
2006-08-07 01:37:04 · answer #8 · answered by coach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that only makes things worse. never do this to a person . my opion?
2006-08-07 01:49:31 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE YOU NUTS?????
2006-08-07 01:35:38 · answer #10 · answered by 4stringthndr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋