HELP! My Girlfriend Of 8 Months Ignores me!! HELP! help! HELp!?

Question

Well I'm 16, been going out with my girl for 8 months, In the begining, its been good we always talked, the one day we didnt on the phone (christmass the day after) she was extremely sad and told me that she missed me, and showed her love for me, now, 8 montjhs later, she goes on a trip with her mom, sister, and cousin, and she doesnt even call, she occasinaly leaves me a message on myspace saying that she's having fun, but sjhe never shows it anymore, how do i get this back? I think she thinks I'm druling for her, that ill do anything so she is acting this way because she knows what do i do guys i love this girl alot and dont want to loose her but my heart is starting to hurt ;-(

i have chanfged routen, I've tooken her to her first concert like 2 weeks ago, after that i took her to vegas!!! right after vegas the next day they left for 5 days, she tells me she misses me but thats after i tell her 500 times, i tell her that im getting sad and she says "OH i know u miss me but you dont have to be this sad" she cant confort me like she use to!!!!!

i have chanfged routen, I've tooken her to her first concert like 2 weeks ago, after that i took her to vegas!!! right after vegas the next day they left for 5 days, she tells me she misses me but thats after i tell her 500 times, i tell her that im getting sad and she says "OH i know u miss me but you dont have to be this sad" she cant confort me like she use to!!!!!

true, but this has been going on for a while now, one time she told me when shes with me she loves me but when shes not she doesnt.

Maby you got this confused, the last 2 months it's been like this, the past 6 months have been wonderfull life chaniging

Answer 1

Dump that ***** and move on!

Answer 2

Nothing to worry my boy. This happens to so many b/fs and g/fs.
Just keep her on observation for some time. Action and reaction are equal and opposite. So, if there is no action from her side for a long time, you can conclude she is not interested in you. Then it becomes one way love. This cannot go for long. Find another girl and start loving her. That is all you can do. Why do you waste your LOVE on some uninterested girl?

Answer 3

She is ignoring you from 8 months and you are still thinking of her not bad you are new in that field soon you will feel that she is not for you .
But if you still wanna convince her then look at her how much she knows about you . Or if she really care about your feeling if she cares then she will accapt you as you are but i don't think she that she care because it is a long time ago when she refused to talk you.
So my friend world is not ended yet your age is not of love but of frendship make friends and then see one day love will make you live for it and for yourself

Answer 4

She may be getting tired of the same route if you believe she's worth fighting for change up ur style. Do something different that she wouldn't expect.

Answer 5

she's on a trip, having fun...let her have it! you're a little young to already becoming a control freak....she's on vacations for christs sake! If she wants to speak with you then she will but she is probably busy..leave her alone and don't become upset about something so small.

Answer 6

she's probably just having a good time, but definetly try to stay in touch with her. When she gets back I'm sure you guys will be even hotter for each other.

Answer 7

At 16 you can expect to be hurt once or twice along the way.....Just think of it like this.....You had a girlfriend and now you don't............and you will met another girl and may be hurt again................but it is all in getting you ready for the one that will come your way for life..........to let you see your mistakes and hers.. Enjoy life ...........its wonderful

Answer 8

ask her to do stuf when she gets back, if she finds excuses then she doesnt like u. then dump her

Answer 9

Yeah... Dump that ******* girls and get on with your life.

Answer 10

p..s her off find someone else