i,ve known this guy for 3 years we never dated just been talking but yet he is constantly saying he loves me and wants me in his life more than anything.he has very low self esteem and says im the only good thing in his life yet he does stupid things he goes long periods of time without contacting me then begs me not to leave his life.we have been through several ups and downs where we didnt speak for months but yet he seems to always come back around and i dont know why since he cant seem to do the right thing why not just leave me alone all together?anyway i havent heard from him in a few months and he hasnt even called me to let me know whats going on or at least telll me he doesnt wanna be my friend any more. i mean why do guys do dumb stuff like this? wouldnt it be easier to never call me ever again?? someone please help me understand this!
2006-08-06 18:42:10 · 2 answers · asked by aleah2515 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I wish i could help you sweety but men reckon we have issues ad are hard to understand, at least if we dont wanna see someone we will tell them, but i will be honst with you and i think that he might be seeing someone else and just putting on an act for you.
Sorry if that sounds harsh but i think you just need to find someone who wants to be with you and will not leave you for long periods.
Good luck and hope everything works out for you.
2006-08-06 19:40:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in friendship there must be a time for silence.. don't be demanding.. instead of thinking hard to your friend just be loyal to him. if you get along then make the best of all the jammings you have.. you have to understand that he also have his own life so do you.. atleast you know in yourselves that your friends.. don't count the times your apart but the essense of frindship that you are sharing
2006-08-07 03:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by destroyed_11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋