why dont girls have guts to talk about sex openly............
or even enjoy talking about it with a guy???????
why??
2006-08-06 18:45:29 · 17 answers · asked by v_87_p 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have no problem with it, but maybe that's just because I've got accustomed to talking about it openly with my boyfriend...not that I'm easy or I'm a slut...he's the only one I've ever had it with. But I think most girls (myself included in ways) find it to be such a personal thing, it's hard to talk about unless you're really close with the person you're talking about it to. Sex isn't just a casual thing for a lot of girls, so they don't talk about it casually, you know what I mean? I hope this helps you! Take Care.
2006-08-06 18:51:31 · answer #1 · answered by ------ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls do like to talk about sex... believe me, we do.... We just have to be comfortable with a guy to talk about it so openly. I mean, even in alot of long term relationships, the couple cant talk about sex. Thats why there are sooooo many divorces in the united states right now.
My fiance and I have been together for 5 years, and it isnt entil the past 6 months or so that I could finally open up about sex... and mind you, our sex life took off... ive had the best sex of my life ever since I opened up about sex!!!
2006-08-06 18:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a good question. It's kinda hard being a girl sometimes. We are expected to be sexy, but not talk about sex. It is a really complicated social thing about being perceived as a sl-t, like we aren't supposed to enjoy sex. It is stupid, though, and that's why I was happy when I met my husband and finally felt comfortable talking about all of the sex stuff I had always been dying to talk about.
2006-08-06 18:52:45 · answer #3 · answered by MissM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, i dont really know! Ive never had a problem in talking about sex or asking specifically what i want in that area, i cant really understand why people do have issues with this - and to be fair, its not just girls, ive come across guys with the same issue.
2006-08-06 19:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by kjay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you might be wrong there, girls do talk about sex, they just talk about it in a different way to what guys do. I think maybe it's because women have been taught that they're not suppose to enjoy sex or their sexuality... even thought that viewpoint is really old fashioned, i think it still impacts on women today. And many women feel that if they talk about it, they might be seen as dirty, sl utty etc.
2006-08-06 18:50:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know which centuary the girls you talking about operate in coz the ones i know talk openly and it is hilarious to hear some of their stories, we do talk even with men but close men not just anyone, you know there is a thin line between open conversation about sex and sluttish discussion on the same topic, tread carefully is the code for us.
2006-08-06 18:53:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i`ll talk about sex openly but why would u i mean its somthing that u just do not talk about
2006-08-06 18:52:01 · answer #7 · answered by nelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it could feel awkward talking about it with a guy
2006-08-06 18:50:00 · answer #8 · answered by kittyput93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why talk when a man is thinking it and then will speak it for you.
2006-08-06 18:52:20 · answer #9 · answered by J J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nelly what r U talking about? duhhhhhhhhhhhhh
2006-08-06 18:55:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋