Family & Relationships - 5 August 2006

This is only the second night in a row this has happened but should I read into it? I know she is depressed and I just wish there was something I could do but it seems like anything coming from me is not welcome or not sincere. I can say stupid things to make her mad but I do appauligize and try to correct my misusage of words to express myself , you know how guys are good at putting there foot in mouth. I just want her to have closier with things and be able to throw things away that need no attention. I try but she runs, She doesn't trust me. What should I do?

2006-08-05 03:35:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-05 03:32:45 · 6 answers · asked by Just call me sunshine 2 in Singles & Dating

so i like this guys brother.. and im not sure if he likes me but the brother who i dont like says that the brother that i do like would like me because im interesting and that by just talking to him (the brother i dont like)could end up liking me. how does that make any sense if he's known me forever and has his eyes set on someone else? and what do i do to get the brother that i do like to like me?

2006-08-05 03:32:43 · 8 answers · asked by ash 2 in Singles & Dating

we are in the same class.

2006-08-05 03:32:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Had a talk with my gf, found out she was emailing and chatting this guy at her work, she never told me, I found out myself one day just catching her on the computer and she told me, I said I want it stopped, she gave me so much problems, then eventually said ok i'll tell him to stop emailing and AIM'ng. But she said it in my face she likes to flirt, and she has been doing it, and will not stop, and this was 3 days before our anniversary which went good.But she says now she feels I dont trust her, and I'mlike I do, but in a way I have trust issues with her right now. She says im the only one, she love me, the flirting is only joking, i asked is it sexual in any way, she finally said only jokingly, and that hurt.

She wouldnt never have told me if I didnt found out myself and that scares me to what else is she doing. I said I like me to be on your thoughts only, not other guys. She said I am, but I feel like they are mostly. I feel like when we get romantic, she thinks of them not me.

2006-08-05 03:32:09 · 7 answers · asked by TerminaToR 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-05 03:32:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-05 03:31:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-05 03:30:38 · 27 answers · asked by no_ugly_boys 2 in Singles & Dating

...who have been constantly exposed to lysol, windex, febreeze, etc?

2006-08-05 03:30:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My parents got into a big fight over my sister because she's wasting gas and needs to fill up her car every other day.and my dad wants her to get more money to fill it up and my mom says it doesnt matter how much u put into it, its just the thought that u have a lot of gas, u'll go everywhere with it. Then they start screaming and i got no idea where my dad is. My mom took me and my sister upstairs and she starts screaming telling my sister to fill up her gas to the max because ur stinky father thinks that im controlling u both.she's like dont i give u enough money to spend on whatever u want?then i left the room and sat outside..and when my sister left, my mom came out and asked me a question and i kept saying i dont know because i dont want to get involved in this sh*t. then she started crying saying "am i talking to the wall,am i not a good enough mother that u guys treat me like a jerk.ur father is a nice guy.i should just leave this house. Then she slammed the door. what do i do?

2006-08-05 03:29:12 · 6 answers · asked by r_thomas129 3 in Family

I swear that my sister in law is evil.

She is very good friends with my husbands ex-girlfriend (extremely beautiful ex-girlfriend). Whenever we are around my sister-in-law she always has to talk about her and not just your regular stuff, but things like "I can not believe sharon is down to a size 4 and still has a 36D chest, you should see the lacey bra and pant set she bought they are to die for".

Then we were there the other night and she had pictures of her friend everywhere and she never has pictures around her house. I love my husband to death and trust him 100%, but it hurts me everytime she does this stuff. Did I mention when I go out of town she always gets them both to go out with her? Somehow it is just a little dinner and her friend just happens to bump into them.

What really bothers me in the end is the tension that comes into the room when these comments are brought up and then I always try to guess what my husband is thinking in his head when he hears it.

2006-08-05 03:29:04 · 6 answers · asked by Tazaor 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

um here the deal im dating a really great guy right now who is really special to me but heres the problem he use to call me veryday like 3 times a day and now he dosnt call anymore i mean football has jus startde up and i know he must be busy but i need to know if you think he dont call cause he dont wanna talk to me or am i being stupid and need to realize that its because of football

2006-08-05 03:28:40 · 8 answers · asked by amber 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-05 03:28:32 · 10 answers · asked by daniUm 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi I need some help here especially a guys perspective would be nice . There's this guy in my complex who I thought was cool at first but as I got to know him better I saw we had nothing in common and that he was only interested in me because of my physical appearance because he kept remarking on it all the time in a way which made me feel uncomfortable and uncomplimentary. So I told him we could be friends and nothing more. He wanted to go to the movies I said no unless it was with a group of people because we were just friends. Then he would say things "well I'm just not going to call you" or "This'll be the last time you'll see me" hoping to get a reaction. After two to three days of peace I'd hear from him angry that I hadn't given him a second thought. So he attacks my likes anime, video games, etc. saying : "Why can't you be normal" What liking I had is gone and I just want him to leave me alone. Nice not working and avoiding him gets vicious messages on my phone.

2006-08-05 03:27:43 · 5 answers · asked by Cyliasis 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 13 and i think now i have made up my mind.I just dont find women attractive, and i would rather be with a man.

2006-08-05 03:26:20 · 57 answers · asked by ndc40 3 in Family

i love him too much i have real feelings towards him but...... sometimes i feel that he has the same feelings others no he is my boss he respects me and me too
help me please

2006-08-05 03:25:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-08-05 03:24:17 · 12 answers · asked by sara t 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-05 03:24:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-05 03:19:50 · 5 answers · asked by pokelver 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like one of my guy friends and I think he likes me too. But I don't know if he REALLY likes me. What do I do?

2006-08-05 03:19:01 · 23 answers · asked by justwonderin'18 1 in Friends

I'm behind on my car payment and the car company called my folks house instead of mine. My mother is not happy. I've already may arrangement s to pay off the past due amount, but my mom called me this morning demanding that Jay, my boyfriend, and I go over to their House tonight to disccuss finances. I reallly don't want to and I KNOW Jay would rather lick a toilet seat than go. How do I respect my parents and be a "grown up" at the same time? I know I frigged up by not having the payment done on time but what do I tell my parents? ( If it matteres I'm 23 and Jay is 29)

2006-08-05 03:17:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

It can be any1.any1 from ur family,friends,boy/girlfriend .Tell me why and tell me one special moment u have with him or her u wana share

2006-08-05 03:17:35 · 5 answers · asked by fundoo 1 in Family

hey, me and my boyfriend are always bored any cant find anything to do. does any1 have any ideas on places we could go or things we could do??

2006-08-05 03:17:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2 wks ago , my girlfriend was raped by someone. And ytd me and my girlfriend found out that my girlfriend's sis is dating with the somebody. What should me and my girlfriend do?

2006-08-05 03:17:09 · 56 answers · asked by daniUm 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-05 03:16:11 · 6 answers · asked by chaopred 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-05 03:16:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

O.K. I had this HUGE crush, no it was more than a crush on a older man three years ago. I really felt for him, not just ohh and ahhed and blushed when he spoke to me like a silly teenage girl. I kept these feeling from him for about a year, then my feeling began to cool, and it was helped after he moved away soon after.
He returned sparingly to vist with old friends etc.. and athough i didn't 'love' him anymore, i still felt very jittery apon meeting him again and nervous whenever he was around. Now, I have not seen him for like 2 years, but i still find myself dreaming about him and wanting him so badly esp. whne i am lonely or sad about something. I have not had any relaptionships since, other hthen fleeting crushes and the like.

I am thinking of writing and telling my feelings. I have no idea if he's married or not, i don't think so, but would this be a good idea? Should I just try and forget?

2006-08-05 03:15:28 · 3 answers · asked by NY Lady 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

if i love a man older than me by 13_14 yr what will i do , he don't know that i love him ,we both r very good friends, and he is my tution teacher, also school's teacher(sir) u love him from 6 years but don't know how to express my feeling , i am an indian and bengali. I truly love him..... what to do as this may be our last year of meeting,i am a 10th class student (girl).

2006-08-05 03:14:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anjali S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-05 03:14:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i told my husband about this site. i told him that i asked a question if i am an irresponsible mom and housewife and i told him the answers. he just nod. now, i brought him back again the issue, i told him that i need a break. i need to have time for myself too. im really tired. he just answered, "Well, you are not yet ready to be a mom then". I was really hurt. i may not be ready but i did all the responsibilities as much as possible to cater all the baby needs, his needs and my step kids need. I did the feeding, the cooking, the cleaning. good for his ex-wife, at that time he can still afford hiring a babysitter and maid to clean up their mess. but now, we cant afford it - i did the babysitting and maid's role. i need help! what will i do? i think i cant have a break after all. im really tired and fed up.i dont mind doing it - i love serving them but sometimes i just need to relax and enjoy without thinking anything.is that bad?am i not really ready to become a mom?

2006-08-05 03:13:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family