O.K. I had this HUGE crush, no it was more than a crush on a older man three years ago. I really felt for him, not just ohh and ahhed and blushed when he spoke to me like a silly teenage girl. I kept these feeling from him for about a year, then my feeling began to cool, and it was helped after he moved away soon after.
He returned sparingly to vist with old friends etc.. and athough i didn't 'love' him anymore, i still felt very jittery apon meeting him again and nervous whenever he was around. Now, I have not seen him for like 2 years, but i still find myself dreaming about him and wanting him so badly esp. whne i am lonely or sad about something. I have not had any relaptionships since, other hthen fleeting crushes and the like.
I am thinking of writing and telling my feelings. I have no idea if he's married or not, i don't think so, but would this be a good idea? Should I just try and forget?
2006-08-05 03:15:28 · 3 answers · asked by NY Lady 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
find someone else. b/c if you do find out he doesnt want some sort of a relationship with you or is already in one with someone else it could hurt you. good luck
2006-08-05 03:20:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Life is all about chances. But if you have not spoken with this man in two yrs he probably already has a life and might think u r a little bit loco if you right to him tellinghim of ur feelings. So I suggest go out have fun with your friends and meet some new guys because this one does not even know you exist. Good luck.
2006-08-05 10:22:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on from him. Why do "re-runs?" If it did not work the first time around, why bother. He will certainly NOT be your 1st nor last "crush" in your lifetime. The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.
2006-08-05 10:24:46 · answer #3 · answered by kristy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋