Hi I need some help here especially a guys perspective would be nice . There's this guy in my complex who I thought was cool at first but as I got to know him better I saw we had nothing in common and that he was only interested in me because of my physical appearance because he kept remarking on it all the time in a way which made me feel uncomfortable and uncomplimentary. So I told him we could be friends and nothing more. He wanted to go to the movies I said no unless it was with a group of people because we were just friends. Then he would say things "well I'm just not going to call you" or "This'll be the last time you'll see me" hoping to get a reaction. After two to three days of peace I'd hear from him angry that I hadn't given him a second thought. So he attacks my likes anime, video games, etc. saying : "Why can't you be normal" What liking I had is gone and I just want him to leave me alone. Nice not working and avoiding him gets vicious messages on my phone.
2006-08-05 03:27:43 · 5 answers · asked by Cyliasis 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just tell him to back off. If that doesn't work, report it to the authorities. This guy sounds like he's trying to harassing you.
2006-08-05 03:35:11 · answer #1 · answered by ares2war 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's time to take this a little more serious. U've expressed ur not wanting to be bothered by this person and now ur receiving harassing messages. Save the harassing messages, make a police report and if need be get an order of protection. This guy is definitely feeling a little more than jilted. Be careful.
2006-08-05 10:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by Timber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't seem to have his head on straight you need to make a police report and report what is going on to the management of the complex. he may very well be a danger to you and to others in the complex.
Best of luck to you
2006-08-05 10:53:55 · answer #3 · answered by eaglerock60 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him! tell him how you felt about what he did had cause you to avoiding him because of all the WHY and than let him know how wrong he had done to cause you not to give him a second thought , last of all tell him that he had miss his change due to what he had done. if he is mature to think.
2006-08-05 10:39:57 · answer #4 · answered by suatsiong2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to tell him that you are in love with someone
you have aboyfriend
2006-08-05 10:37:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋