Family & Relationships - 5 August 2006

I wanted to know what do African American women look for in a man. Because in my relationship I do alot for my girlfriend that most men now a days dont do I cook for her, rub her feet, write her poetry, even though my finances are tight these days I make sure that she has my last dollar, I even eat her best tasting dish(if you know what I mean) anytime she wants me to. My whole life is her I want nor need anyone but her and without her I would have no heart, but I dont think she feels the same way she says she does, but she frequently tries to put me down, she frequently ignores my phone calls, and she tries to make it seem like what I do for her doesent mean anything since I cant give her everything that she wants financially. So I just wanted to know what do black women want in a black man because im desperately trying to please my girl, but the more drama she creates the less I think I can take. It hurts to luv someone but they dont luv you back. Thanks in advance for your comments.

2006-08-05 14:13:30 · 2 answers · asked by The Chief 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, my parents got divorced when i was 4 months old, and i think it's really ****** me up, i don't even know who i am. i never got over it. the day i figured it out was qiute a sad day indeed. I want to know what happened, but NOONE will tell me. i just want to know why. and, i have an insane hope i can repair my parents relationship enough so they can both go to my high schol graduation, wedding (if i can find someone), etc...

once, in a 6th grade debate on which kind of parent was better(mom or dad), i had to leave the room, because i couldn't take it, it was something i didn't ever want to face. that really got to me. i learned soonafter that my grandfather and greatgrandfather also got divorced. i just want to not **** it up like that.

am i taking it 2 seriously?

do i have a right to know?

can i break the cycle?

2006-08-05 14:13:09 · 32 answers · asked by God 4 in Marriage & Divorce

jus curious

2006-08-05 14:13:01 · 17 answers · asked by Amber aka Nina 1 in Singles & Dating

I like dis boy in my neighborhood n he hardly cums out . i seen him dis one time n we had connection like we was meant to be but i don't hardly see him i see his parents and his sister but not him and i like him alot.

2006-08-05 14:12:50 · 17 answers · asked by Aye 2 in Singles & Dating

wanna keep it what should i do??

2006-08-05 14:12:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my boyfriend always is gettin mad over something then he gets over it and i really like him but i dont want to deal with him gettin mad over every little thing i really dont want to break up with him but i cant take the stress of him always bein mad and half the time he wont tell me why

2006-08-05 14:12:05 · 4 answers · asked by amber 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-05 14:12:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when I am done talking, why can't I copy & paste it. I use to be able to, but now it's not working

2006-08-05 14:11:47 · 2 answers · asked by little rambo 1 in Family

2006-08-05 14:11:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-05 14:10:44 · 6 answers · asked by eitakx 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-05 14:10:39 · 2 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I need honest answer....

2006-08-05 14:10:08 · 3 answers · asked by DENZQT 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this girl at my school who I know likes me. I like her too! We both text eachother all the time; during and after school. Her sister says she talks about me and really likes me.

I texted her asking her if she likes me, and she said yes. But when I asked her in person, she wouldn't answer.

Sometimes when I talk to her, she doesn't respond. Her sister says that she's very shy because she has never had a boyfriend before.

Is she just not interested, or is she just too shy? Sometimes she just acts so cold around me, it just makes me wonder.

I flirt with her alot, but she just smiles... When I hold her by her arm when asking her a question, she pulls it away.

All these lead me to think she doesn't like me. But she says she does, and her sister says the same.

Is there something wrong with me? Or is she just shy?

Hehe, here is a pic of me:

http://myspace-941.vo.llnwd.net/00936/14/95/936585941_l.jpg

As you can see, nothing special to be shy about. I'm just average.

2006-08-05 14:09:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Girls of different races. I was a little curious the other day and went onto an online singles thing (just looking around) and saw that they had prefered races. I thought that was stupid and then i noticed that no one had my race down! Do guys have a thing for only certain races? what races (don't worry, I won't go all jackson and try to change my race. . . if a guy doesn't like what I am - then he's not good enough.)

2006-08-05 14:07:47 · 11 answers · asked by Lissa 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-05 14:07:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

k so i really need a guys point of view on relationships nd stuff...ne body out there? IM me at sexayblond08

2006-08-05 14:07:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is obsesed with baseball and stuff.

2006-08-05 14:07:23 · 16 answers · asked by The-Grace 1 in Family

chat...
or are the chat rooms just for perves?

asking again since I'm looking for more evidence...

2006-08-05 14:06:55 · 12 answers · asked by double v 5 in Singles & Dating

I have intense sexual hunger. It's distracting me. But I lack sometime to find a guy. Too busy with my Masters Thesis.

2006-08-05 14:06:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know time heals all, and I am also praying about it and walking 3.5 miles a day for stress/exercise, but how do I get past this? And FYI, It is not love feelings I have - it is hate.

2006-08-05 14:05:15 · 14 answers · asked by DianneSB 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my man always says he'll call then never does are all men retared?????????????

2006-08-05 14:05:14 · 10 answers · asked by eclipse 1 in Singles & Dating

My cousin has only been on 1 date that i know of and i feel really bad about it! I wish she had a boyfriend but she can't seem to find one!! She tells her self that she is fat, but i don't see that. She always says that its her weight the reason that no guy looks her way but i think its cause she doesn't make a move!

any advice will help!
and if there are any guys that are around 25 and live in missouri, you could e-mail me and give my info on your personality!!!
thaks

2006-08-05 14:05:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

But he tells me he's Straight so i dont know

2006-08-05 14:05:08 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love him very much and it really hurts. Ive been dating him for a long time and know him very well..kind of like a ross and rachel relationship (any friends fans?) He told me he still cares about me very much but i cant help but cry...i cry constantly. i cried in the middle of the store today and everyone thought i was crazy. i know everyone says time cures all but... i dont want to wait anymore. How can i get over him since there isnt really a possibility of us getting back together?

2006-08-05 14:04:48 · 16 answers · asked by kelly09620 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have met a man online and he lives across the country from me. He's buying a ticket to fly out and visit me for a weekend. Have any of you done this before? I am very big on safety. He will be meeting my parents somewhere before we go out and he will be staying at a hotel during his visit. Do things like this ever turn out well? What should we do while he is here? Should I take him out sightseeing? Any tips or advice? Thanks!

2006-08-05 14:04:33 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-05 14:04:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-08-05 14:04:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean not like paragrpahyy size but///cute

2006-08-05 14:02:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

met him in 2003 then brokeup in 2004 cause his friend told him im after his money which iexplained im not,yes im broke but doesnt mean iwant his money inever asked him for it,icouldnt forget him and ive been in love with him for 3years,ifeel hes the 1,what to do?

2006-08-05 14:02:38 · 10 answers · asked by pepsi 1 in Singles & Dating

I was in a wedding last week and I wore my hair up. This girl in the wedding party really liked the way my hair came out. She also said she thought I look much better with it up then down. And she couldn't believe how good I looked with it up. Was she insulting me. Trying to say I usually don't look very good. She said with my hair up I looked sophisticated. She also through out I looked like a victorian model. I think mostly because of the way the hair was. But do you think this was a left handed compliment?

2006-08-05 14:02:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating