She is too shy! How do I get her to open up?

Question

There is this girl at my school who I know likes me. I like her too! We both text eachother all the time; during and after school. Her sister says she talks about me and really likes me.

I texted her asking her if she likes me, and she said yes. But when I asked her in person, she wouldn't answer.

Sometimes when I talk to her, she doesn't respond. Her sister says that she's very shy because she has never had a boyfriend before.

Is she just not interested, or is she just too shy? Sometimes she just acts so cold around me, it just makes me wonder.

I flirt with her alot, but she just smiles... When I hold her by her arm when asking her a question, she pulls it away.

All these lead me to think she doesn't like me. But she says she does, and her sister says the same.

Is there something wrong with me? Or is she just shy?

Hehe, here is a pic of me:

http://myspace-941.vo.llnwd.net/00936/14/95/936585941_l.jpg

As you can see, nothing special to be shy about. I'm just average.

Answer 1

I'm the same way with this guy i like......the best thing to do is to keep trying i am heartbroken when i see him flirting with someone else or hear about him calling someone.I finally got the courage to write him a note saying how i feel.shes just shy really shy i'm the same way if shes anything like how i feel, she's really into you just scraed to show her feelings,i myself talk about him all the time i'm crazy about him!and my heart would stop if he called me and I'm soo happy whenever he calls or talks to me.SHe likes you if she keeps saying she does and everyone says she does and she never said she hasn't shes really shy and theres nothing wrong with that.
And i see why shes shy you're pretty cute! Good luck with trying to get her to open up but its hard i feel i have to know the person better until i open up normally,i'm sure she's the same way,shy is fine.Good luck!

Answer 2

well i can tell that she likes you. in 1 way i am like her because i know that it is much easier to talk through letter than to thier face she might be a little bit embarressed. she is deffinitly just shyand one day if she likes you enough she will reallize that u r a really nice and hot guy and would love to date u trust me i know.

Answer 3

She's just nervous, and probably doesn't know how to react. If she's said that she likes you, and her sister says so, then I'm pretty sure it's true.

Answer 4

make her laugh!
but make sure ur actually funny not just stupid
if u got her to laugh then hopefully she'll make a comment about w/e it was u told her
then work around that then....TA-DA!
GOOD LUCk!!!
...oh yeah nice pic

Answer 5

I think she is too shy. Hehe I like you, you are really cute...