Family & Relationships - 4 August 2006

my mom married this guy last month, i wanna be happy for her but he is always trying to be my dad and i makes me mad because he's not my dad. and my brother feels the same way. we don't wanna tell our mom because it might upset her. so we decided to try to run out 'new dad' away. well the only thing that got my and my brother was a punishment so what do we do we want my mom to be happy but we don't like this guy he's mean he never lets our friens come over, he drinks, he yells at us, he curses us out, and when we tell my mom about she doesn't beleive us because he doesn't when she's not around and he threatned my brother an he tried to kiss me so we told my mom she still didn't believe us so we went to stay with our grandparents for the summer but we still have to go back when school starts im afraid i don't know what to do what should we do????? shold we hate him? im confused what do u think we should do?

2006-08-04 19:26:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-04 19:26:12 · 12 answers · asked by Mikaila D 1 in Singles & Dating

you met the person that day, had sex with him/her & the very next day the person completely disappeared from your life?

Did you enjoy it, or did you regret it?

2006-08-04 19:25:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Give oral to women... I mean and enjoy it...and why?? Details please...

2006-08-04 19:25:24 · 7 answers · asked by UlickNme 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you had the chance to take back one mistake in your life what would it be and why?

2006-08-04 19:24:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If so wat is like being a nudist?

2006-08-04 19:23:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What if you guys hung out regularly and his girl was cool or so you liked her as a pal too but knew your pals secret how would you handle the situation?

2006-08-04 19:22:16 · 19 answers · asked by Ms. Inquisitive 2 in Singles & Dating

So I'm starting a new job and i'm freaking out about it and wanted my boyfriend to stay home this weekend and let me know it's ok. But instead he went away to his Dad's for the weekend (who last weekend stood him up for 6 hours and never gives a crap about his son). A part of me feels so mad at him. Do I have the right to be mad?

2006-08-04 19:22:14 · 20 answers · asked by tanny_banany2002 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-04 19:20:26 · 15 answers · asked by Lothario 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Alrite so heres the deal, im going on vacation for 2 weeks. I have a really awesome girlfriend that i like alot. So i came up with this idea, when i get back i give her a rose for every day that im gone. The problem is, i dont know what to say when i give them (im not the best with words). So please, give me some ideas on what to say when i give the roses.

2006-08-04 19:18:12 · 8 answers · asked by .workd 2 in Singles & Dating

Recently, I noticed that my son (14 years old ) always like to go to our bedroom secretly. So I followed him once and I found out that he went to my drawer, took one pair of my stockings immediately and went back to his room. And then, I couldn't believe my eye! I saw him put on the stockings on himself and then suck his one feet!!! It seems that he was so excited about the stockings!

Is there any mon who has the same experiences before? What should I do?

2006-08-04 19:17:41 · 6 answers · asked by Amber 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Men, what do you think of women like this? Would you take her up on the offer? Even if you were married?

2006-08-04 19:16:36 · 23 answers · asked by abcde f 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my friends bro have been gettin along well he has a friend stay over and now he is being a jerk he even put me in a head lock me a chick what do i do

2006-08-04 19:16:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-08-04 19:15:53 · 9 answers · asked by Khosrow S 1 in Friends

ive been in a relationship for a while now, with a guy i really care about...but can't get any farther than friendship. im not offering, that "we can be friends anyway" but he really likes me and that's all i can do so he could be better about this. i broke up with him today....and he was very sad. i dont want him to do something scary, he has mentioned cutting before...but never like threatening to do it if i break up or something. just like a comment. and i worry for him. the reason i broke up was b/c i knew that we liked eachother but in the long run nothing was ever going to "work" . i think i made the right choice, b/c if i had waited longer, i probably would have hurt both of us more. but i still feel sad. very sad. i dont want to take it back, because we've been throught the breaking up and getting back together phase, but i want it to be the last time it happens. and i dont want to make him feel like he's my toy b/c i care for him enough to know what will be best.

2006-08-04 19:15:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 19 years old and the reason we broke up a few months ago was because I was just starting a second job, i had summer classes, and i felt distanced from my family. I told her i wanted to work things out but we will have less time with each other. She said i was hurting her by wanting that and she decided to break up with me. When i asked her "wouldnt you rather see me a little less than now, than not at all?" she just said I was hurting her. So she decided to break up with me. Now, a few months later, I have found out that she has started drinking and partying more and I am very scared that I will lose her forever. She told her a couple of her sister's friends (guys) like her and want her (they are 22 and she is 19) and I really got sad and upset. I dont want her to be flirting with a bunch of guys. I can't have a relationship right now because of how busy I am but I want to have a committment together so we can have something in the future. What should I do??

2006-08-04 19:15:31 · 10 answers · asked by whoa 1 in Singles & Dating

in my group of gurlfriends its 5 of us. so i found out that 1 of the gurls invited every1 BUT me to a sleepover. then i found out they're goign to the mall too!! and its not fair i mean its only 5 of us gurls,all freshman to high school by ourselves and she's discluding me! then when we're on the phone and together she's always like "i love u! ur such a great friend! blah blah!" and i mean...come on!!!
i was thinking about getting back at her by calling her when she's at the mall and then be like "oh i forgot ur at the mall okay well then talk to u laterz oh and tell the gurls that i say hi okay? chow!" is it a good idea? i mean GOD I WANNA STAB HER 4 DOING THAT 2 ME!

what do i do???

2006-08-04 19:14:39 · 9 answers · asked by ollie_lover_babe252 1 in Friends

My son's father of 3yrs but we've been friends for the past 5yrs still wants to have sex,but now talks about wearing a condom cause he doesn't want anymore accidents. What should I do keep having sex with him or just give it up because I feel like he comes to me when he can't get from his main chick and i want more than friendship cuz Istill love him and do anything he ask me to?

2006-08-04 19:14:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-04 19:11:31 · 21 answers · asked by completely janie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have just started to date with a guy. I am a new commer here in NYC.
The problem is that I don't have any idea to go and to do together.
My ex-date always prepared a plan so i didn't need to come up with new ideas for date.
However, my current, new date always askes me "what do you want to do? or "Where do you want to go?
I always say "I don't know."

I know that I should not say "I don't know" but I have no idea. I am always happy as long as I am meeting somebody I like.

Anyway, I really need some good ideas for a better dating.
if I have some ideas, I don't have to say "I don't know" any more and he doesn't have to come up with all ideas by himself for us.

Would you tell me good places or good ideas for us?
Like I said, I am a new commer here in NYC so I would be appreciate if you tell me more detailed information.

2006-08-04 19:11:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-04 19:09:41 · 12 answers · asked by Joey 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why are some guys intimidated by successful or independent women? Just because we've worked hard at something doesn't make us unloveable.

2006-08-04 19:08:12 · 7 answers · asked by BONNI 5 in Singles & Dating

How do I impress her? She's a genius! She graduated college when she was 18. I'm in love. Any serious suggestions?

2006-08-04 19:08:07 · 18 answers · asked by dchoker 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-04 19:08:01 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

me and my boyfriend for 5 yrs just broked up. we've been trying to have a baby for 2 yrs.i just got back from a 3 months vacation, now he's telling me that he's ben doing a lot of thinking while i was gone and he doesn't know wat he wants! he's not ready to have a family and he wants space to think wat he really wants. i'm so hurt by this and i don't know wat to do!!!!

2006-08-04 19:06:50 · 8 answers · asked by maria_christian0901 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex bf told me i was feeling sorry for my self again...

2006-08-04 19:06:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well i have this really good friend named matt. i liked him for like as long as i knew him.
as soon as i started dating his best friend he said he liked me. later he was just good friends with me(which was how i liked it) but then i started liking him. i ended up kissing him 1 night(he said he'd date me if i was single) and my bf broke up with me. which i was already gona do cuz i wanted matt. ok so after we break up he says he doesnt want a gf right now. alright so every once in a while we'll start fighting cuz he plays mind games with me.i asked him out and he said no sorry. i kissed him but he kept trying 2 avoid it & get on a new topic. so i tried 2 make my feelings change and kissed ended up kissing another really good friend of mine. they started talkin & knew i kissed botha them and matt got kinda mad & said he liked me & the other guy said now he loves me more than ever. then i found out it was a trick but matt did get mad bout that kiss between me & trey. thn my best

2006-08-04 19:05:56 · 8 answers · asked by kim w 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-04 19:05:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-08-04 19:03:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should a grown man need his mother to come talk to him so that he doesn't loose his family?

2006-08-04 19:03:08 · 7 answers · asked by SKYE 2 in Marriage & Divorce