my mom married this guy last month, i wanna be happy for her but he is always trying to be my dad and i makes me mad because he's not my dad. and my brother feels the same way. we don't wanna tell our mom because it might upset her. so we decided to try to run out 'new dad' away. well the only thing that got my and my brother was a punishment so what do we do we want my mom to be happy but we don't like this guy he's mean he never lets our friens come over, he drinks, he yells at us, he curses us out, and when we tell my mom about she doesn't beleive us because he doesn't when she's not around and he threatned my brother an he tried to kiss me so we told my mom she still didn't believe us so we went to stay with our grandparents for the summer but we still have to go back when school starts im afraid i don't know what to do what should we do????? shold we hate him? im confused what do u think we should do?
2006-08-04 19:26:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
your mom needs to wake up she is being selfish and denying to you and your brotger and i bet she has lost all self respect for herself for she knows this is wrong loneliness does not advocate the abuse of ones kids
2006-08-04 19:33:01 · answer #1 · answered by judetip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your real dad around? can you tell him about it? I sure hope you can. Your mother just doesn't want to believe anything you tell her because she loves this terrible man who could actually turn out to be a child molester. I hope you told your grandparents what has happened. Ask your grandparents if the two of you can go live with them and get gramps to talk to your mom about it. Tell them you have a great fear of living in the same house as this man. A tape recorder sounds like a good idea when he is cursing at you. Plus a video camera would be a good idea for your brother to grab when the pig tries to kiss you again. But don't let him know he is being taped or recorded. Something has to be done for you and your brothers sake and saftey. Good luck my darlings.
2006-08-04 19:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a pocket tape recorder and record him cussing you out and the other things he does to you, then play it back to your mom so she can hear what her husband is saying to you.
If that doesn't work then you need to talk to some other adult that you can trust. A counseler at school, someone from church, a relative that you can trust, someone. If he is doing these things, then it is abuse, but make sure you are telling the truth if you go to someone, if you don't it will just get worse for you.
Good luck.
2006-08-04 19:33:10 · answer #3 · answered by wetsaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mom needs to open her eyes and see the danger and yes if he's like that when your there wonder what he is doing to you now your gone? tell your grandparents! tell them your afraid to go home and why they should be able to help!! and if they feel you should talk to the cops about him tring to kiss you then tell them everything!! cause next time he might not stop at a kiss!! i wish you and your brother good luck and keep us posted!!
2006-08-04 21:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by munchkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! You should hate him... i am serious.. hate him more... Please allow me to say something..
What a mother you have! Still don't believe that u got trouble with your step father.
If i were you, i report him for child abuse. Try to get away from them.. still with your grandparents or still (U+your brother) alone is the best way that i can suggest!
2006-08-04 19:33:01 · answer #5 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit your mother down and try to talk to her then get them together and talk to resolve the problem I wish you guys the best of luck let me know what happens.
2006-08-04 19:37:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate is pretty strong,now dislikeing some one can be done,stepfathers can be trying and pushie but it is your moms happyness we are discusing,so I would say if your not happy there try and stay with your grandparients,they have scools there so problem solved.
2006-08-04 19:36:10 · answer #7 · answered by macki4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be He Like's you as a daughter and you are blaming him for that kissing and angry stuff that he do.You should listen to him he really want's to be your dad.
2006-08-04 20:00:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anastasia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell someone and take it from there, and if that doesn't work go to the police.trust me someone will listen.you have all the right to hate him in fact tell your mother that your not going back to live with her until she deals with that a#$%&*!!!
2006-08-04 19:44:27 · answer #9 · answered by *Shy Girl* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL YOUR GRANDPARENTS WHAT HE IS DOING!!! OR TELL THE COPS IF HE IS TRYING TO KISS YOU... IT'S CALLED CHILD ABUSE!!!
2006-08-04 19:31:59 · answer #10 · answered by montanamom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋