in my group of gurlfriends its 5 of us. so i found out that 1 of the gurls invited every1 BUT me to a sleepover. then i found out they're goign to the mall too!! and its not fair i mean its only 5 of us gurls,all freshman to high school by ourselves and she's discluding me! then when we're on the phone and together she's always like "i love u! ur such a great friend! blah blah!" and i mean...come on!!!
i was thinking about getting back at her by calling her when she's at the mall and then be like "oh i forgot ur at the mall okay well then talk to u laterz oh and tell the gurls that i say hi okay? chow!" is it a good idea? i mean GOD I WANNA STAB HER 4 DOING THAT 2 ME!
what do i do???
2006-08-04 19:14:39 · 9 answers · asked by ollie_lover_babe252 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
may be ur aptitude did not fit into their scheme of enjoyement.
just talk to them, they r ur friends.
2006-08-04 19:20:26 · answer #1 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking it out with her..
Ask your other gal frens too whether y din they invite u to the mall n sleepover?
Is there anything not rite abt ur character or is there any attitude in u?
Back-stabbing her wont solve this problem n it might get worse..
They might even stop talking to u..
2006-08-04 19:23:46 · answer #2 · answered by mongqueen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are true friends ask her if there is something about you that embarrasses her when you are in public with the group.
Ask if it's the usual items like dress, race, religion or is there one of the other girls who's issues with you prevents you from being invited.
True Friends are a rare breed. They will help a friend become a socialite not bar a friend from a venture.
2006-08-04 19:32:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that happens to me, i would be hurt and upset also. looks like she's not at all sincere in regards to your friendship. but give her a benefit of the doubt..maybe she tried calling you but wasn't able to get a hold of you. it's possible, right, even if it happened twice the row. why don't you talk to her and tell her what you feel. if she really cares, she would understand you, she might even make it up to you. otherwise, it's not worth having yourself in trouble. just forget about her if you think she doesn't worth it... and move on. don't hold a grudge with anyone..and pray that same thing wouldn't happen to her.. you'll feel better. good luck!
2006-08-04 19:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by julian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wait a little bit then if she still dosent invite you meet her at the mall. like run into her and say somthing like what r u guys doing here?
2006-08-04 19:20:38 · answer #5 · answered by tory s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~~try calling her and talking to her... ask her straight out why she didn't invite you? maybe she got so excited that she thought she called you and is waiting for you to responed... if not, calling her on it and confronting her on it will embarrass the heck out of her and make her realize how she hurt you, and may think twice before hurting your feelings again.~~
2006-08-04 19:22:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to them and ask wats there reason for not inviting you, if the reason is reasonable then its okay, but if not that only means there not your real friends.
2006-08-04 19:56:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do to her the same so she knows what she was doing to you and be careful or you'll make a big problem and anyway this is just a suggestion.
2006-08-04 19:30:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her what's the problem and why she is being like that... I know she'll answer coz she's a your friend....
2006-08-04 19:47:52 · answer #9 · answered by aimeE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋