So I'm starting a new job and i'm freaking out about it and wanted my boyfriend to stay home this weekend and let me know it's ok. But instead he went away to his Dad's for the weekend (who last weekend stood him up for 6 hours and never gives a crap about his son). A part of me feels so mad at him. Do I have the right to be mad?
2006-08-04 19:22:14 · 20 answers · asked by tanny_banany2002 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a person whose father always ignored her all I can tell you is that people like us will always look for a chance with our parents, and were always looking for the good in them. You have right to be mad if he did not call you, email, or text message you.
Understand that he will probably always do this when it comes to his father, but also make it known that you needed him. After all that what a relationship is 2 people that always have each others back!
Good Luck!
2006-08-04 19:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa V 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you are in a relationship with this man and wanted him to keep you company this weekend before you started your new job, you do have the right to feel resentful that he did not respect your needs and wishes. However, are you aware of the real reason why he chose to visit with his father, instead?
Could there be a serious family illness, an important family business matter, or perhaps even a fear of some resulting adversity? Before you critize your boyfriend, please TALK with him, calmly, to get some understanding of the relationship he has with the man - at least partly responsible - for him being who he is today.
2006-08-04 19:43:58 · answer #2 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a way you have a right to be mad, but at the same time if he doesnt get to see his dad a lot he might wanna see him once in a while. Just sit him down and let him know how you feel
2006-08-04 19:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough one - problem is that even though his Dad may be unreliable and useless it doesn't stop the feeling that son-father relationship can be. the best thing is to talk with your boyfriend - don't get mad explain your feelings and try to understand his. He may have some issues in his relationship with his father that you haven't understood.
Anyway how was your new job (good luck with it I am sure it will be fine) and good luck with your boyfriend.
2006-08-04 21:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by 1919 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you freaking out about a new job......maybe your husband just wants to get away for a few hours no big deal and nothing to get mad about
2006-08-04 19:27:55 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay for you to be mad at him, but then again... he's a boy and every boy needs a Father so he's probably really wanting a relationship with his Dad. Just call him. He can comfort you that way.
2006-08-04 19:26:17 · answer #6 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think you have he right to feel mad at him because he needs to know that as your boyfriend he is going to be the most one that you want to depend upon and same with you towards him. i think he should have stayed home with you to make sure you are alright and just talk and t freaking out.
2006-08-04 19:42:37 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you do have the right to be your mad at your boyfriend because if you two love each he is making you apart of the family as well and know you are important and you had plans first that he should have stick ed to.
2006-08-04 19:31:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u do! he should be there to love and support u and make u feel better! to let u know its ok and he knows ur gonna be great at what your doing!! be mad at him.. maybe he will get the point that he should be there for YOU instead of his dad that isnt there for him!! best wishes and good luck :) let me know what happens! amarie1020@hotmail.com
2006-08-04 19:27:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're psycho clingy. Blood is thicker than water. You wanted him to stay to let you know it's okay that you started a new job? Huh?
2006-08-04 19:26:08 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. O'Clock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋