My son's father of 3yrs but we've been friends for the past 5yrs still wants to have sex,but now talks about wearing a condom cause he doesn't want anymore accidents. What should I do keep having sex with him or just give it up because I feel like he comes to me when he can't get from his main chick and i want more than friendship cuz Istill love him and do anything he ask me to?
2006-08-04 19:14:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He has no respect for you. Do not sleep with him while he is dating anyone other than you. Tell him you would like to see him exclusively and be a family with your son and that if he can not see a future with you it is time to salvage a friendship for the sake of your son.
Stop letting him use you because nobody can respect a person who can not respect themselves.
2006-08-04 19:29:20 · answer #1 · answered by misse 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you still consenting him to have sex with you though you know that he has "main chick" is something stupidity....get over him and don't make yourself get abused of that kind of man...You deserve a much better life to a more better partner.
2006-08-04 19:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by chona a 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. Your instincts are right and he's using you. ONLY have him in your life as your sons father, not your lover.
Don't ever talk him down to your son, because someday he will resent YOU for it. Just get out of the sexual relationship with him, and keep it friendly for your son.
You're his booty call. End it.
2006-08-04 19:19:29 · answer #3 · answered by Amy N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys stop saying "ew" and "yuck" and give the girl help ....anyways tell him that u still love him and if he fathers his child and if he comes back to u you'll give him sum good lovin! i think that might work or another way pay for a billboard and and say dear(whatever his name is), i still love u and i hope u luv me 2. i need u 2 help me with raising our son. plz come back 2 us!
2006-08-04 19:38:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can't answer you because you are ill. you'r made and your brain is not working. son and father realation is not equal to lover. God make every thing with a pair. sex with the same sex is illegal and not natural and every religion not allow you. think about AIDS
2006-08-04 19:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is something that should happen between two people who care about eachother and if he olny comes to you when he cant get it elsewhere he is just using you. tell him that you dont want to just be **** buddlies, tell him you want a relationship. You shouldnt lower yourself to becomming his sex toy whenever he wants it. Be strong, and if he still says he just wants sex you shouldnt give it to him.
2006-08-04 19:22:07 · answer #6 · answered by Amelia M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dun ever have sex with him anymore unless he loves u too...
Love is not sex..
Try telling him your true feelings..
2006-08-04 19:19:17 · answer #7 · answered by mongqueen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say: "You can *want* anything you want. And here's what *I* want ..."
Of course, if you're getting what you want, what's the problem?
2006-08-04 19:27:18 · answer #8 · answered by Luis 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
eeww yuck
2006-08-04 19:19:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋