2006-08-04 19:05:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Two golden rules to marriage:
1. Never ever, ever, ever let yourself go (don’t let yourself get sloppy)
Once you let yourself go, you start becoming unattractive, because what brought you two together in the first place starts disappearing.
2. Never take each other for granted.
Keep that healthy type of "tension" between each other. Avoid slacking on whatever that the couples used to do to impress each other prior to marriage. (for ex, the woman would take the extra time in front of the mirror to make sure she looked attractive, and the man would work-out/exercise)
It’s super important to keep things interesting by continuing to change for the better; striving for self-improvement.
If you start giving too much, letting them have their way with you without making the partner work for it, (or you start receiving too much without having to sacrifice) the couple starts taking each other for granted. Once the relationship takes that kind of spin, your on the freeway to a place called *yawn* boring.
When the couple breaks either one of these two fundamental rules to a healthy marriage, not only does the sex life slow, but progress slows down across the board.
Less sex after marriage is not a rule of thumb:
Its more like a result of a couple’s failure to set their priorities straight.
2006-08-08 12:09:18 · answer #1 · answered by DavidDucati 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some ( it just gets old, or it's not exciting anymore because they already got what they want, or it just becomes something like eating ) Me on the other hand I will always have a good sex relationship married or not..spice it up, make sure he/she doesn't lose the desire to make love, make it fun, try new things... there's many ways to keep it interesting... instead of it becoming another monthly thing then finely stops...
2006-08-05 02:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by Ness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have children it may slow down a little but it is up to each individual couple to keep that side of the relationship happening.
2006-08-05 02:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because alot of couples don't put forth the energy to keep it interesting and exciting after living with someone who can easily make you mad, drive you nuts, do or say something that completley turns you off. A satisfying sex life is alot of work, but it is well worth it!
2006-08-05 02:11:05 · answer #4 · answered by The Nag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because romance, and consideration has a tendency to dissappear. And complacency sets in while runnin in the proverbial rat race of life.
2006-08-05 02:42:03 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because the hunt is over... its time to become a fixture on the sofa, put on 40-50 lbs and grow in contempt for one another, constantly dwelling on the whispers of regret that bite at the back of your thoughts...
2006-08-05 02:10:34 · answer #6 · answered by E-Rock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you know you get it anytime you want!
or both of you are tired from work all the time and the only time you see each other is on the weekend!
yes what they said ! spice it up!
2006-08-05 02:10:43 · answer #7 · answered by yen12rs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because it's no longer the center of ones universe- & we have alot of other responsibilities, cares & things to think about (like, "WHEN is that kid going to go to sleep..!").
2006-08-05 02:13:59 · answer #8 · answered by Joseph, II 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa, slow down man!
2006-08-05 02:12:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says it does?
2006-08-05 02:09:40 · answer #10 · answered by boo_6917 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋