ok well i have this really good friend named matt. i liked him for like as long as i knew him.
as soon as i started dating his best friend he said he liked me. later he was just good friends with me(which was how i liked it) but then i started liking him. i ended up kissing him 1 night(he said he'd date me if i was single) and my bf broke up with me. which i was already gona do cuz i wanted matt. ok so after we break up he says he doesnt want a gf right now. alright so every once in a while we'll start fighting cuz he plays mind games with me.i asked him out and he said no sorry. i kissed him but he kept trying 2 avoid it & get on a new topic. so i tried 2 make my feelings change and kissed ended up kissing another really good friend of mine. they started talkin & knew i kissed botha them and matt got kinda mad & said he liked me & the other guy said now he loves me more than ever. then i found out it was a trick but matt did get mad bout that kiss between me & trey. thn my best
2006-08-04 19:05:56 · 8 answers · asked by kim w 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
friend said not 2 date trey(her ex) so today i was trying 2 get matt 2 tell me who he liked & he said it doesnt matter they dont love him back and i got mad and kicked the desk and i said ow and he said " want me 2 kiss it?" then i bit my lip on purpose and said he could kiss that..and he did
2006-08-04 19:07:29 · update #1
i later find out he likes me back. is this another mind game? wenevr im single he says he doesnt like me, wen i start liking another guy he says he does
2006-08-04 19:08:10 · update #2
matt is really sweet but is it real? he told me before he couldnt date me cuza his best friend(my ex)
2006-08-04 19:08:51 · update #3
do u think we'll date???
is it real tho? i never stopped loving him since that one night we started talking.
2006-08-04 19:09:23 · update #4
OK, I recommend you tell this Matt guy that he shouldn't get mad about you kissing trey because he was the one who said he liked you and then turned his back and is playing mind games. If i were you id go up to Matt and say, OK, if you like me then why don't you go out with me? Just don't be playing games with my mind getting mad because I'm kissing other guys when i could have been kissing you but you turned me down!! I recommend you find some other guy but if you really like this Matt guy then go for him! I no what its like boys are difficult there a pain in the ***! And its hard to get over them when they don't like you any more!! So do what your heart tell you to do. Express your feelings to him! :):)
2006-08-04 19:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The answer to my question you left me: Yes, I know he is good to me and I am very thankful to have him in my life. I know for a fact I won't ever find another guy out there like him. He is everything that a female would ask for in a guy. It's hurts me to even think about leaving him. Were going thorough so much & everyday I think that I am so thankful that he aint left me, but like I said he said he isn't going no where & he knows im not going anywhere. So, im praying that in 5 months when me & him plan on moving in together, that everything will be changed by then.
2006-08-05 03:06:45 · answer #2 · answered by Peaches06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing games. If he really likes you he would stay with you all the way. He is just jelous when he sees you with another guy. Move on and when he try to play mind game again just say " sorry i have waited for you long enough.. i would prefer us as friends" That will do it.
2006-08-05 02:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, he's playing head games. And you need to move on. These guys now have YOU in the middle of THEM, and you are getting used and manipulated.
You're attracted, not in LOVE. I know it feels like it now, but it takes more than what he's giving you to deserve your love. Drop them both NOW. You deserve better.
2006-08-05 02:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by Amy N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so much of a mind game.. be careful... i used to be married until this girl wanted my husband enough to give him WHATEVER he wanted and then we divorced and yeah she didn't want anything to do with him again and then a while later we hooked back up to maybe try and work on it again, and well yeah....she wanted him again... only when he wasn't available.. well it is over for me and him for good and she still plays with his head!!! he will never be happy cuz there was something good between me and him until she played mind games with him and now he has noone.. so please be careful!!!!
2006-08-05 02:16:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. As the stomach churns. Man, that sounds like a tangled web to me. I would pull completely outta that one until I got my head straight then see about what to toss into the salad. But, that's me. Good luck to you either way. Remember to respect yourself first...steph
2006-08-05 02:12:56 · answer #6 · answered by STEPHEEDEE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be jealous just kiss him and bring a *** if you want and say your mine forever or just hit him and say do you really like me or not if not you don't want to do that then just never talk to him ever again and stick with people you like
2006-08-05 02:13:52 · answer #7 · answered by john4cena2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it appears to me that he really don't know what he wants. and is just playing games with you he is just jealous when you are with someone else because he want you to be available to him if he wants to date you. move on from him and find someone who is more stable and know what they want.
2006-08-05 02:29:09 · answer #8 · answered by tendertrex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋