My ex bf told me i was feeling sorry for my self again...
2006-08-04 19:06:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it was when we broke up and i was being really dramatic and told him i was going to kill my self and then he said, there you go, feeling sorry for yourself again
2006-08-04 19:16:18 · update #1
That's a really good question.
I think that everybody is entitled to feel sorry for themselves, but we always seem to justify it somehow. People always feel bad about feeling sorry for ourselves. Its a feeling and we are allowed to feel it.
If your truly upset, you are entitled to be upset for a while! Cry, grieve, be sad! Break ups suck and they hurt! You are fully entitled to be sad!
Time will heal your pain, but the pain will not hurt forever. You will move on. Your young, and have so many new experiences ahead of you.
Pray to God and he will comfort you.
Suicide is not the answer,you should really talk to a councillor if your suicidal.Its a serious issue.Find strength in Jesus. He's carried me through such hard times.♥
2006-08-04 21:55:57 · answer #1 · answered by rxqueen♥ † 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well why are you feeling sorry for your self dont think of life as a bad thing make sure you dont feel that way cuz it can be a bad thing cuz u might get the feeling like why bother live
2006-08-04 19:17:02 · answer #2 · answered by Nitney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you're feeling sorry about. Most of the time it's just an excuse to not take the blame for things that you do. Other times, it's just your way of coping with your issues.
2006-08-04 19:10:27 · answer #3 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a bad thing if the occurence of feeling sorry for yourself is frequent....why not analyze and learn from your mistake so it won't happen again....
2006-08-04 19:12:10 · answer #4 · answered by chona a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i ask your self how previous you're, i could wager particularly youthful. you have actual issues, and likely it style of feels like the tip of the international, yet how long have you ever been dealing with this? I inform you, i guidance human beings, and that i even have litterally spent months on end dealing with countless the very comparable issues you're dealing with. once you're a Christian, you ought to be a member of a church, perfect? you go with for some counseling and that's precisely what the pastor is for. he should assist you to or deliver you to somebody who can and it is going to no longer fee you something. Your answer isn't on right here. i do no longer decide so you might take offense to what i'm approximately to declare, yet there are human beings obtainable alot worse off than you. If the boyfriend is cheating, you do no longer decide for him, sell off his butt. I mean is that the style of guy you go with for to marry? Your maximum suitable acquaintances suicide exchange into tragic, yet there's no longer something you're able to do approximately it. She is to blame for her strikes, and you're in basic terms to blame for yours. i believe your discomfort approximately your grandpa. you are able to pray for him popular, and spend each and all of the time you are able to with him in case the greater severe occurs. Make the main suitable of a while with him. mum and dad combat and regrettably that's existence. My mum and dad fought from the time i exchange into born unitl my twentieth birthday whilst they finally divorced. you purely ought to no longer become in contact and as I reported "you're in basic terms to blame for you." encompass your self with stable impacts and stay far flung from damaging human beings. The Bible says that in many situations we conflict with the aid of those storms, yet God is with you and whilst He brings you out, you would be better and nearer to Him with the aid of fact of it. Oh and by using the way, you're no longer "stupid" purely because you have A.D.D. that's an ailment that could be taken care of with drugs and such. Peace
2016-10-01 12:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by damaris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you let it linger too long yes. But everyone always feels sorry for themselves. It depends on your situation too.
2006-08-04 19:09:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i hope he has a reason to say that oh every one feels like that some time in there life
2006-08-04 19:10:01 · answer #7 · answered by Neil G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's a bad thing..
2006-08-04 19:09:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this things happens in everyones life for atleast once
i dont know why but its true
2006-08-04 19:17:11 · answer #9 · answered by Friend4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is we get down on ourselves, and think its terrible. My b/f says to me look people got it worse than you, stop your crying. Be grateful for something please!
2006-08-04 19:33:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋