Family & Relationships - 31 July 2006

I have a friend that knows everything about me. I had a boyfriend that i loved deeply. Me and my boyfriend had problems and we brokeup. We kept contact and still would see eachother once in a while. My bestfriend new about this. About 1 week from the last time i had been with him he calls me and tells me that he needs to talk with me. So we met at my bestfriends house. He told me not to get mad, but that he had "made out" with my bestfriend. I asked him how many times and he said twice. I walked away and went inside and gave her a look and walked out. She came out and stopped me and wanted to know what was wrong and i told her "u know whats wrong" arround this time my x passed by us and left. Well i confronted her about it and she didnt deny it i asked her how many times and she said once. I told her he said twice and she denied it. Now. I didn't forgive him, but should i forgive her?

2006-07-31 20:07:57 · 20 answers · asked by BERONICA R 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we've known each other for a month, we've dated twice, I meet her family, she will meet mine this week, were both adults, is it time to suggest the bedroom, or should I wait a little longer, it has been a while for both of us to be in a relationship, and it will be a special moment, we have talked a little about it but indirectly, joking and playing around, I'm ready and think it is time..this is going to be a serious relationship we both agree on that....just want to know what u think about timming...what is too soon, and how long is too long....

2006-07-31 20:07:26 · 11 answers · asked by wizzard 4 in Singles & Dating

I am so shy!!!! this is horrible i know. please don't say it again!! i did it enough!!! but he seems to really be in love with me! he even spoke to his mother. and she will come to meet me just in one month!!! i am so scare!! her mother knows my age, and agree with our relation! he is very mature! but i am 18 yrs older than him!!! he is so charmy and care about me. We had never had sex, and he knows we won't, just for fun. We had been dating now for 6 months. He says he will never cross the line at least i allowe him. He really seems to be in love..(and me too) but i am so affraid. What should i do. please help me!!!

2006-07-31 20:06:05 · 15 answers · asked by Ritamorales. 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-31 20:05:46 · 11 answers · asked by policewoman 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My mom keeps tellings me that she can tell by my actions that I am not mature. I'm in college and I have seen more than she has in a more concentrated time. I grew up during the 90s until now and she grew up in the 60s and 70s. I just don't understand her definition of maturity. Will Smith was right, "Parents just don't understand."

2006-07-31 20:04:59 · 28 answers · asked by IGG22 1 in Family

besides actually having s*x like instead of just making out cuz thats like all we do

2006-07-31 20:04:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok...i have this problem..its like i like sum1 so bad, but it might not be right.And like all i do is think abt him, but i cant really do something to hit the pin point. I've told him, but i dont want to get hurt. We're only 15 and both pakistani muslims, which means no dating..no guy/girl hang out...and like idk wat to do anymore...its like not just a crush..its more..but not as strong as love..b/c i'm only 15...and like i dont kno him like SO well...but its like, everything i kno abt him...whether good or bad..i cant help but like him..and i dont wanna always wonder..what if i did?..or if only i did?...i mean whatever happens...will happen..and all i want him 2 do is be happy and okay...i care abt him so much...and i dont kno wat to do anymore.I dont even kno wat the future holds, or if we can ever or will ever become sumthing..and even if we do...idk the result..and i guess i'm REALLY terrified...of getting hurt,dissapointing parents,doing sumthing really stupid.Wat shud i do?

2006-07-31 20:04:01 · 4 answers · asked by titli uri 2 in Singles & Dating

O.k so I have made a serious mistake. The other night I was with some friends and ended up gettin drunk, and there was this guy there and we got together-if you know what i mean- and he is a really big player, does that make me look like the bad one, or is it him?

2006-07-31 20:03:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

see him i cant help but smile. but there is just this on thing he has a g.f and i heard that he might be abusive so i ask him about it and he said he wasn't but him and his g.f are getting along right now. her parents are mad at him for something. and i dont know what it is cause i didn't ask him but he told my friend that it was because he was asking way to may question like *who was there? where the boys? what did you wear? what did you talk about* stuff like that but i really dont think that her parents would get mad over that, i think that he might have hurt her. and i dont know what to do. but i love him so much i mean he is my everything. I will just sit her looking at his pictures.. and listen to sad music, everytime i see him i just smile from ear to ear.. he leads me on like he might like me but i dont know cause i think he likes her and his not going to give her up for me and i dont want him. soo can someone help me i dont know what to do..i love him with all my heart. <3

2006-07-31 20:03:09 · 11 answers · asked by ...♥BeautifullyBroken* 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm co-habiting with my boyfriend who happends to be my manager. He's twice my age.The main reason I accepted him is that he told me he has divorced his wife. (which is half true becos he has married and divorced for 4 times already). But last week i found out that he's actually still married since 1999, but already separated (but still in good term) 5 years a go. I am so devastated upon knowing that he's actually lied to me, and still seeing her, come over upon her call and still do things for her behind my back.
He told me that they are more like brother and sister, has been living apart since 3 years a go, no sex since the last 5 years, he's happy when she's there but doesnt miss her if she's not around.
He promised to marry me,but im afraid to trust him again, yet i love him so much too. He tried to get divorce in 2001 but she refused, and basically she's not making any mistake.

Anybody can suggest what should i do? or legal advise (ground) to get him divorce her?

2006-07-31 20:02:35 · 20 answers · asked by blurcirce 1 in Marriage & Divorce

y r guys so perverted and only think bout sex?

2006-07-31 20:01:59 · 35 answers · asked by someone-else 1 in Singles & Dating

I just don't like people over, or going to peoples house. I never do anything after school with friends. Never go places with friends. I do sometimes but I don't enjoy it, and I wanna come home after a while. It's to hard to be with people. HELP ME, is this normal

2006-07-31 20:01:43 · 12 answers · asked by Lauren 3 in Friends

This woman had born a baby.. I am married with my hubby for nine years and had kids. I cant bear to breakmy family. but this woman also do not want to give up..What am i suppose to do?? I had think of divorce which this woman had been waiting for so long. Please help...

2006-07-31 20:01:22 · 7 answers · asked by sun 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is currently making less money working for a family member than at the job he quit to work with this particular family member. He barely makes enough to pay the rent. I on the other hand am currently staying at home raising three children. I homeschool one, due to a disability and the other two are not in school yet. My husband wants me to work graveyard shifts. I worked previously, but at that time we decided it wasn't worth it since my entire check was going towards childcare. I suggested he could simply get a different job (he's had offers) that pay better and give benefits. He just doesn't 'want' to. I don't know what to do. I don't kow if I am perceiving things in the wrong way or not. Is my husband not taking his responsibility seriously in supporting his family or am I slacking?

2006-07-31 20:00:40 · 11 answers · asked by Lynn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-31 20:00:03 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well im waiting for December because thats when my girlfriend comes back home and its 4months away and im trying to soooo hard to make it go by fast but its impossible. Any tips or advise on how to make it less more complicated (i know its not a long time but it seems it is). Any tips on how to make it go by fast and kill time or something helpful.
I just miss her alot thats why it seems its a long time
Any tips or help will be awesome - Thank You

2006-07-31 19:59:47 · 5 answers · asked by jms_nov28 3 in Singles & Dating

But now my problem is wether i married because of his love making or love.At times i feel cheated as we don't have much in common.Have tried outside affairs but cannot give in for sex with another man.Just possesed with my Husband.I'm i selfish.

2006-07-31 19:59:14 · 14 answers · asked by hannah n 2 in Marriage & Divorce

girls like being chased right?? but why?? if a guy likes u why mess him around and potentially push away by acting all hard to get!!?? wen clearly u (the girl) like him and told him tht!!??? - personal experience - its a pain in the *** and hate it wen it happens...other guys must feel the same??

2006-07-31 19:57:55 · 18 answers · asked by progolfer 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-31 19:57:28 · 4 answers · asked by riya 1 in Family

2006-07-31 19:56:40 · 3 answers · asked by 1919 3 in Singles & Dating

I had read that women are more attracted to married guys because they know another woman has found the guy acceptable, and that women think that if a guy is single there must be something wrong with him. I have noticed that since i got married and wear a ring that women flirt with me more.

2006-07-31 19:56:23 · 3 answers · asked by rob 1 in Singles & Dating

his 20 and im 15

2006-07-31 19:56:00 · 31 answers · asked by policewoman 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-31 19:55:33 · 6 answers · asked by mrharderson 4 in Friends

2006-07-31 19:55:05 · 4 answers · asked by SHINE 071371 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If i were to run away from home and go to a police station would they send me back home? Or send me to a foster family or something rather?

2006-07-31 19:54:57 · 3 answers · asked by SquiBBLe 2 in Family

im 16 year old guy.....
i met this girl through one of my good friends bridget, ever since i met her 3 months ago i have crushed on her soooooo hard... I cant get her out of my mind. We share the same hobbies/interests and she is very pretty. I am afraid if I ask her out and she says no then she will be all weird and akward around me and she wouldnt want to hang out with me anymore. I really dont want that to happen cuz i love it when we do hang out but i want to further our friendship into a relationship. I dont know if she likes me like i like her so i dont know how to ask her out. can someone help me out, but please please dont say something like just go for it and ask her out...... cuz thats not what i am looking for sorry

please answer
:)

2006-07-31 19:54:38 · 2 answers · asked by Pinky69 1 in Singles & Dating

Most of my question are about this person, three years together, then a break up , we were gonna get back together and all i had to do was break up with my new boyfriend but i couldnt and then i lost my ex for good. I was so young and i didnt kno what i wanted, i was scared that he would leave me again so maybe i chose the saftey route with the guy i knew wouldnt leave me, like my first love did. My first love promised he would come find me several years after we broke up and i hope he does, i have tried to e-mail him and apologize but he ignores me, he was my bestfriend and i love him so much and miss him with all of my heart. I think hes happy now and i dont want too ruin his happiness but i miss him so damn much and i feel like i need closure. I am really haveing a hard time jsut forgetting the past, everyone who says to do so well it isnt as easy as it looks, and well i dont think i can handle feelin this way muhc longer its alreid been a lil over a year, someone please help....

2006-07-31 19:53:09 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents say that a Saint as told them that they will die if I marry her who is 2yrs elder to me. I love her so much that i can't live without her. If my parents do not understand me then I will tell them to Kill me. That is the only other way out. I am not able to bare this tourturing.

2006-07-31 19:51:20 · 21 answers · asked by kavali sundeep 1 in Weddings

2006-07-31 19:50:34 · 25 answers · asked by Hard Rocker 3 in Singles & Dating

i am 15 & i've never been in love before. & i've decided that i'd never say yes to anybody in this early age. i like this guy & i've realised that i love him. Recently he proposed me, but i am not sure if he really loves me or not. i did'nt reply at that time & told him that i need time.what shall i say to him. cuz i don't want to go for a fake relationship. please help.

2006-07-31 19:50:30 · 15 answers · asked by summi 1 in Singles & Dating