his 20 and im 15
2006-07-31 19:56:00 · 31 answers · asked by policewoman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
experience and knowledge have taught me that the older male will always want someone younger than their wives.is that what you wanna be?the other underage woman.
2006-07-31 20:01:17 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It is not uncommon for there to be an age difference between partners and for there to be a relationship from that, especially in your case where there is only a 5 year difference in age.
The problem, though, stems from you being 15, or a minor, and the guy being 20, or an adult. So, your question of 'is this ok' is a no according to the law. If you do go with the 20 year old, he can be tried for dating a minor and/or raping a minor.
2006-07-31 20:04:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop and ask yourself why someone who's 20 would want to hang out with a 15 year old and not someone his own age? Would you want to hang out with a 10 year old? Of course not. You're at different stages in life. Such a difference in age is not normal until you're both independent adults. Boys your own age are more fun anyway, trust me. Enjoy the fun of high school relationships while you can.
2006-07-31 20:54:49 · answer #3 · answered by shizzngiggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. There is a vast emotional difference between the two of you, or at least I would hope so. A fifteen year old girl has different expectations for a relationship than a twenty year old guy does. Way different. You're talking different levels of maturity considering many aspects.
And the law doesn't think so either.
2006-07-31 19:59:23 · answer #4 · answered by mwrc09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the genders were reversed (15 YOM 20 YOF) everone would be praising him for being able to catch an older woman.
2006-07-31 20:11:49 · answer #5 · answered by marcellonius24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO; it's not. It's Jail bate and Jail time for the guy. At this point in time, there is no good answer for you at this time. A lot of problems can come out of a relationship like that. Just be friends and keep it so until you're 18.
2006-07-31 20:01:11 · answer #6 · answered by Shelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! that is so not ok. If you like the guy think aboout him sitting in jail, cause that is what is gonne happen. N e ways ur 15 focus on something u really need like and education.
2006-07-31 20:06:21 · answer #7 · answered by epena86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to hear it, I know, but he's too old for you right now. Think about it. You've just started high school. He's halfway through college. The maturity level is what's wrong. Give it another 3 years or date someone your own age.
2006-07-31 20:01:59 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_lil_cowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's O.k to have feelings for him, but unfortunately it;s illegal. If you have any kind of relationship it needs to be a friendship in nature type of relationship. If he cares about you as well, he can wait to you are eighteen. He'll still be a young 23 and you'll be a relationship ready 18. good luck!
2006-07-31 20:04:33 · answer #9 · answered by tomcat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel i was 15 head over the hills for this guy that was 21 .my parents said no. i said yes anyway if u are going to get involed with him dont sleep with him till your old er because if u care for him u will not like to see him behind bars and if he really cares about u he will wait that how u will also know if he cares about you or sex. becareful
2006-07-31 20:10:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 will get him 21.
what that means is...since ur 15 and he goes out with you...he could be thrown in prison for 21 yrs.
don't do that to him.
2006-07-31 20:07:58 · answer #11 · answered by Who cares 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋