My parents say that a Saint as told them that they will die if I marry her who is 2yrs elder to me. I love her so much that i can't live without her. If my parents do not understand me then I will tell them to Kill me. That is the only other way out. I am not able to bare this tourturing.
2006-07-31 19:51:20 · 21 answers · asked by kavali sundeep 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
First, look at this fact - You are 22 years old, your girlfriend is 24 years old. You have to absorb this fact hard because love will prevail no matter how much age difference there is. Question: Are you going to be bothered by this number as the years gone by?? All parents want the best for their kids and of course, they LOVE their kids.
Look beyond her age difference, see her as she is, is there something in her personality or behaviour that bothers your parents?? Parents who are involved in their children's upbringing will know their children best, especially their character wise.
Have you think about their perspective?? If you insists that there is nothing of an issue, be it her personality or behaviour that is discerning, o.k then, its fine coz no one is perfect.
Well, marry her then coz at the end of the day, you are the one who will be spending your lifetime with her, not your parents.
2006-07-31 20:15:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing, why did you go about telling them that she is 2 years older? Now, that you have already told, do one thing - wait for some time (hope they don't "pressurise" you to someone else in the meantime!!), then after a few months or longer, tell them that you both are of the same age or that she is younger, and if they ask how, just joke that you "grew" up faster in the last few months, but on the serious front tell them that there was something wrong with the records!!! (meanwhile let's pray that the Saint changes his mind!!) - By the way, which Saint?/ (Let me see if can talk to him)
2006-08-01 04:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by Jose T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont panic man .are u financially independant?If you are tell your parents firmly that you love the girl and you are going to marry the girl you love and no one else and it is your future you are deciding and they the parents have to understand that or tell the parents they bless the wedding anyway .Because you are going to elope with the girl and marry your love anyway >this way they will fall in line and most likely agree with marriage rather than loosing their son .You have to be firm to deal with your parents to lead a happy life. There is no shortcut. So go ahead and be firm about what you want dont act like a child you are not a child anymore?
2006-08-01 05:01:06 · answer #3 · answered by sumant b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 22 and they are telling you who you can and cant marry? There is something wrong with that buddy. Tell your parents everyone dies sooner or later so your going to marry this girl whether they like it or not. If you dont show them that your independent then they will be controlling your life forever. Break out of the shell and marry her.
2006-08-01 02:59:21 · answer #4 · answered by eonetiller 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 22 years old..just tell your parents its your life and your old enough to make a decision on your own. How many years apart are your parents??? Do they like the girl your with??? how long have the two of you been together?? Maybe its just too soon?? Anyways...stop letting your parent run your life and grow up!!!!!!
2006-08-01 09:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by lapp562 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see you're 22 and need your parents permission to marry someone you love...either you are a very immature 22 or you live in another country, under different cultural more's and values. And I couldn't tell you what to do in that case.
2006-08-01 05:14:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know where you live, but if it's in the US, you're over 18, so you can marry whoever you want to. Outside of the US...well, I'm no authority there. Location would help though.
Hey Tim? I think English isn't his first language. Cut it out.
2006-08-01 02:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's one thing to respect your parent's wishes, and it's another thing to let them run your life as an adult. Your grown up. Act like and it and tell them that while you respect their wishes, you are going to follow your own heart and dreams and be with the person you want and they can either accept it and get on with their lives or they can't...it's up to them. Either way, you are the one who should be happy in the end.
2006-08-01 09:21:35 · answer #8 · answered by allie_to_you 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is der any saint dat will say dat????I think dey just don't like d girl.try to ask dem why?tel dem dat u love d girl? n try also to seem mybe der is also some characteristic or ways dat ur girl hv dat dey tink its not gud for u.If your on the rite age n u tink wat ur doing is rite go and marry her,but just let your parents know. Don't do any harm tings like killing,do u tink u can resolve ur prob. by killing? its a big NO
2006-08-01 02:59:56 · answer #9 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people should not marry ... and for godsakes never reproduce. Let's go with the Saint on this one.
2006-08-01 03:04:28 · answer #10 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋