But now my problem is wether i married because of his love making or love.At times i feel cheated as we don't have much in common.Have tried outside affairs but cannot give in for sex with another man.Just possesed with my Husband.I'm i selfish.
2006-07-31 19:59:14 · 14 answers · asked by hannah n 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
there is obviously some deeper connection between you.
Stop looking for what you do not have and concentrate on what you DO have and build upon it.
Affairs are not going to help your situation.
2006-07-31 20:10:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You may not have something in common which is the fact that all of us has different personality but you might as well consider the other side of your marriage, making love is for two people in love to show their partner their passion for each other, but i guess you have a problem why you can't see this.....and for the fact you are married what kind of wife are you trying to have an affair????? i'm not condemning you of whatsoever but i think you have to open your heart and mind ......DO YOU REALLY LOVE YOUR HUSBAND??? well i don't think so!!!! if you love somebody you wouldn't even dare think of having an affair!!!! but you are sticking for that marriage because of your LUST!!!! but i think you're not contented with that love making that's why you still search and ended up having an affair which is really unfair for your husband!!!
2006-08-01 04:17:57 · answer #2 · answered by wala_lang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you still there, you cannot base a relationship just on sex, it don't work, and if you are looking for outside affairs, than you are not a happy bunny.
you should sit down with your hubby and put your cards on the table, be honest and go from there.
it seems you are staying there for the wrong reasons and do you think you are being fair to your husband.
best of luck as i know it ain't a easy situation to be in, i have been there myself, but i decided to cut loose, it was not easy to begin with, but with time, good family and friends around i came out the other side. And i feel happier than i have in a long time. Just be honest with yourself
2006-08-01 05:15:36 · answer #3 · answered by Carlette D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, join a charity group, find a job, have a kid ... do anything that mentally stimulates YOU. That way you can shag to your hearts content with hubby but still feel worthwhile etc coz you wont need him for anything else.
Carry on having affairs and you will get caught out and lose everything.
2006-08-01 06:28:49 · answer #4 · answered by Ian H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's your husband number i'll show him what love is and he can show me his lovemaking skills. How do you feel about that???No it is not very nice is it. Try and find some common ground with your husband you married him remember. If not make some new skills/interest together good luck and stay away from other men that is not the answer.Good luck treat your husband with respect.
2006-08-01 03:37:46 · answer #5 · answered by jules 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on the love, do more things together, find new hobbies or interests. I doubt you would have married him just for the good sex? There must be something there? Passion? You can build on that!
2006-08-01 03:04:36 · answer #6 · answered by loopy lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i have to disagree with you I am the best love maker and if you don't believe me ask my wife.I cant say anymore because I as a great love maker and great husband and father I only share my love making skills with my wife.If your husband is as good as you say I hope he finds a real lady who will love him and be faithful to him.Leave him and stop ruining his life.Or are you as selfish as you sound??
2006-08-01 07:45:44 · answer #7 · answered by pig m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all have rocky patches through marriage but you have to work on things find something in common, he cant be that good in bed if your running of with other men... you purley are not ready for marriage and the responsabilities of it, i do hope he finds out as i cant stand people who do the dirty on each other..... whats the point of spending all that money on a wedding and saying vows and all when you get to a rough patch you ignore them all...? it is certainly a lame excuse to climb into bed with another bloke!!!
2006-08-01 04:39:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are selfish, i hope he cheats on you so you know how it would feel. then he should kick you to the kerb. your nasty. how can you feel cheated, your poor husband is the one that has been cheated, why don't you let him go and find a woman who really cares for him, he deserves to be happy but he doesn't deserve you. you will get whats coming to you and you will end up alone.
2006-08-01 03:18:10 · answer #9 · answered by Kelly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's more than enough information for anyone don't you, get a life and get a grip, your a control freak who wants what she can't or shouldn't have, let him go so he can have real love.
2006-08-01 09:42:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋