I just don't like people over, or going to peoples house. I never do anything after school with friends. Never go places with friends. I do sometimes but I don't enjoy it, and I wanna come home after a while. It's to hard to be with people. HELP ME, is this normal
2006-07-31 20:01:43 · 12 answers · asked by Lauren 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Get out of the house. Come over to my house and we will have a party.
2006-07-31 20:11:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same way. I have Bipolar Disorder, but even when I'm not sick I'm still SOOO the homebody. I made my old church's sunday school coordinator cringe when I wrote "no friends" on the reference block of the background check form. I am married and have a young son, so it is possible to have a romantic life, but you will end up dating a lot of co-workers when you're older unless you join a service org or two. (I met my hubby at work.)
I have never seemed to fit in anywhere, and even when I did make a friend I drifted from them after a few months.
Whether you believe in this or not, I think it will give you some perspective. I have been told that I'm an "Old Soul," that I've been reborn so many times that nothing in this life really excites me anymore but the very simple things, like nature and reading. Furthermore, I have "old friends," souls I've known from other lives, and those are the only people I like because of my "been there, done that" attutude. They are the only folks I have stuff in common with. But, like me, maybe you just haven't met up with many of these "old friends."
No, you're not normal. Neither am I. But, when you've been married 62 times, had 74 kids, and lived all over the world- BEFORE you're twenty- school drama queens, worrying about exams, and arguments over who looked at whose boyfriend at the dance club are a little, well, dumb.
Hope this helps...
2006-08-01 03:18:43 · answer #2 · answered by Angela M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the SAME EXACT WAY! and I am 19 years old Lol It's not a bad thing , but you can get type lonely after a while Lol. If it is a confidence issue , its very understandable. Like I dont like to go out because I feel im not gonna look as good as my friends & I will feel stupid if someones lookin at them & not me. Even though I have a boyfriend. Eh girls are confusing. But your definitly not weird or anything. (or maybe I am too , lol) :)
2006-08-01 04:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they may be a serious problem of course depends on how old you are been a loner is often identify in clinical terms as depression anxiety disorder desire to isolate if you feel really good when nobody is around alnmost a felling of been safe not good , consider all this people wil say you are home body often time that BS look into it seek help from freinds or professionals
2006-08-01 03:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by simmer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's not weird to want to go home after awhile, I mean when i spend to much time with my friends i start to go crazy and i need to go home. But as for not doing anything at all, maybe you should try and talk your friends into doing something that is fun for you. If they are good friends they'll understand.
2006-08-01 03:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally normal; just different from the norm. you may have an introvert personality type. if you look online, there are many informative articles and "tests" that you may find apply to your situation. Myers-Briggs has the official test. But, i found it more informative to read the blogs. I believe they were posted by a washington dc. paper, ...can't remember for sure. just look up "introvert". there is a wealth of great info. most importantly, just be comfortable with who you are.
2006-08-01 03:13:40 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm kind of like that too but if you are depressed about staying in, then you may have a problem. But being alone and doing your own hobbies is just as important as getting out and trying new things for your development.
2006-08-01 03:07:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people like to be at home...but it's what you perceve to be a problem...if you're happy the way things are that's fine. but if you think there's a problem then you should seek help from a professional...
2006-08-01 03:09:49 · answer #8 · answered by vinyl_mad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how it makes you feel when you are around these people. Are you anxious, etc? Or do you just prefer to be alone? There has to be more info to give an effective answer.
2006-08-01 03:10:18 · answer #9 · answered by julielove327 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes not normal you must hve some of your friends. to know each other. you must go out... you must have many good friends... or if you have friends invite them to your house... its not normal to just stay at home.
2006-08-01 03:16:15 · answer #10 · answered by margie38us j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋